BF judging my ex

My boyfriend of 2 years is judging me because I dated a black guy before for a very short period of time. We did not even slept together (not going into details..but just oral). I am Asian and I am a very open and non racist person. He is also Asian and he have tons of black friends, so I do not see what is the huge deal about. Guys (spec asian guys), please give me some insights on this.

 

Asian guy here. Here are some possibilities: 1) Asians (particularly first generation Asians) often view black people as lower in status; I have Asian friends whose parents would kill them if they dated black guys. Given you are Asian, you probably know this unless you are 5th generation. 2) Your bf is insecure about his penis. 3) Your bf's racist views lead him to believe that your ex will come after him with a gang. 4) Your bf is insecure about his penis.

 

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