So I was reading through this piece somewhere about how online dating is amazing and how effective its been. With it, a piece accompanied it talking about great questions to ask on a first date. And it was the biggest pile of crap I've ever read. They were as generic as they come and will no way lead to getting laid if thats the end goal.

As we're a pretty young group on here, I was wondering what questions you guys usually like to ask on a first date? Hopefully it'll make for an interesting discussion.

I usually go for three:

1 ) An embarrassing story - helps me connect with someone and if its humorous, all the better.

2) Whether she likes to read - simply for compatibility purposes. I'm a big reader so enjoy discussing it

I think around 20-30 guys. This accounts for high school, college (mostly freshman year), Spring break trips, summer time, etc.. Then when they turn 21, going out to the bars basically a few days a week during their Junior and senior year.

What do you think

I've been getting ready for my SA role by picking up business clothes, and it is an absolute nightmare. I have a "curvy" petite frame. It is nearly impossible for me to find a full suit that works. Either the top is too small or the bottom is too big/long. I have the biggest problems in the bust area.

My office is divided into three groups consisting of around 40 Analysts. Out of which, 5 are women.

In my group, there are NONE.

What's the ratio at your bank?

Is it healthy to have a friendship with a married woman, where:

1) You dated
2) She texts/calls you an awful lot

Is this dynamic normal? Have any of you monkeys experienced it? I would hate to be the cause of someone's issues.

I just moved into NYC for a new job and its been consuming so much time that I've barely been able to go out. I asked a friend to set me up with a friend of hers but that didnt go well. A few of my colleagues and the fact that my brother married his wife after meeting online has kinda prompted me to go in that direction. I'm a little apprehensive. I'm not sure what to expect. I was wondering what you guys have been doing, those with serious time issues, in relation to dating?

Has anyone ever tried it? Any level of success? Is the social stigma still attached from when I was in college?

I think the thing I'm worried about is how some of these women are immediately expecting a long-term commitment because of the 'no-fail' nature of it.

Any tips guys? Thanks!

I asked one of my friends from college to set me up with one of her friends, or not even that, when I introduce myself to this girl, whether I should say we have a mutual friend. She coldly said no.

Some friend, right? Clearly I should get rid of this 'friend' right?

Does anyone remember this? Might have been an Eddie post or response to one.

It was a hilarious analysis of why men should wait for marriage, how women start out getting as much sex as they want, and then need to tie down a man before they become unattractive. Men age like wine, etc. Had graphs

SB for first person to post it, my Google fu must be terrible. Want to re-post somewhere

Not what I usually post but bear with me. OK, my ex and I keep in touch still and we're still pretty good friends now. We had a pretty ugly break-up and have had major arguments after the fact (I mention this for context).

I met a friend of hers a while back (I doubt she remembers me), and now she's in the same city as me. She was pretty hot and still is judging from her Facebook pictures. So my question is, how can I get my ex to set me up with that friend? Couple of things to note:

1) Although, I wasnt, my ex claimed I was possessive. Utter crap because no other girl has ever said that to me. So I'm worried she might mention this and screw things up for me.

2) As mentioned, an ugly break up but friends since. We've had our ups and downs. How does that effect me do you think?

I'm bored at work so figured WSO.

Who would you prefer out of these fine ladies?

Kayla Tausche (CNBC)
Linzie Janis (Bloomberg)
Sara Eisen (Bloomberg)
Margaret Brennan (CBS)
Stephanie Ruhle (Bloomberg)
Kelly Bit (Bloomberg)

Tausche and Janis run away with it for me. Followed by Eisen. Ruhle intrigues me though.

Thoughts?

Maybe its because I'm still in my low 20s, but I dont see how money is required/considered by females.. Most guys our age meet women at a bar or a club. These are places where basically every man is on an equal playing field, where their looks is what sets them apart. And the girls you meet at these places arent the type of girls that you'd want to date or spend money on, so I dont see why so many men stress the importance of money when it comes to women.

Pretty funny piece from The Atlantic on the rampant pervasiveness of the hookup culture at schools (obviously old news) and how it actually empowers women. Some interesting anecdotes as well.

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/0...

Hey everyone,

I've been struggling with this search for a while now. I don't think my standards are too specific but was wondering if any guys here want the same qualities I do.

I think most would agree that physical appearance is the most important of such qualities because that's the 1st thing we observe in each other. Beyond that, though, I find more and more females have become too impressionable due to exposure to pop culture.

As a 21 year old, I feel that myself and others are in an increasingly losing situation. Some of the things I look for:

-No "clubbing": I think this speaks for itself.
-Lack of grandiose tattoos: It seems more and more are going this way.
-Fakeness: Plastic surgery and excessive use of warpaint (makeup) are huge turnoffs.

My ex girl (the same one) recently got back into town and is offering to set me up with her friends. I accepted because I recently broke up with another girl and could do with a fling or two.

Having seen a few different girls (she has tons of hot friends), i hooked up with two of them. Both slutty and nothing special in the sack but pretty to look at but not so good to listen to. One of her friends is great, very pretty, great personality and easy to talk to for ages. The other night we spent all night on the phone talking.

However, in discussing with my ex-girl, she says she is saving herself for marriage and will only get serious if she sees me as marriage material. I dont want to settle down yet but I really like this girl. What can I do?

I really need to find something to do today lol

THE ONES TO AVOID
The dating game is difficult to navigate. Sometimes guys end up with a woman who they later realize is nothing but poison.

Of course, it’s not fair to judge someone on a first impression, although we all tend to do that anyway. But there are hints, sometimes subtle ones, that poisonous women tend to reveal and if you can catch them, you will know which women men should avoid at all times.

Women men should avoid #10
The transformer
At first, she will do subtle things like fix your collar and shuffle your hair. But before you know it, she’ll be licking her fingers to rub something off your face and telling you that your entire being is wrong.

Yh first time I'm hearing of it from the mentalist TV Show

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=935O6jDjXLA

Original thread:

http://www.wallstreetoasis.com/blog/why-do-wall-st...

If I've learned anything from a lifetime of sports, it's that it wasn't my personality that was winning girls over in the summer months during high school/college (pools, beaches, etc). Magic Mike's success among the female demographic only reiterates what most posters said: women care about the way you look.

That's all I have to say for now.

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/9-marriage-problem...

9 Marriage Problems that Are Actually Good for Your Relationship

1. You both fantasize about other people.
2. He goes out with the guys.
3. You argue a lot.
4. He spends a lot of money on his hobbies.
5. He uses porn.

6. He works all the time.
7. You both flirt with other people online.
8. You're too tired for sex.
9. He's close with a female colleague.

I'm guessing Eddie or UFO

Despite searching, I have not seen a topic regarding ethnic hair. My goal is eventually go into Investment Banking. However, I'm not trying to get laughed out of the interview for looking too different. So, I want REAL advice. Are there any women in banking on here that understand this dilemma? Have you guys seen any interns or entry level analysts with ethnic hair. I'm referring to NEAT braids, afros, or twists. This is a very serious question. I want to go natural for cultural reasons, but I have a good suspicion that bone straight hair is the norm. Should I just suck it up and get a wig or relaxer?

Did anyone apply for this and hear back? It takes place on the 19th

http://www.cracked.com/article_19785_5-ways-modern...

This is an extremely well-written piece on Cracked - authored by a man - about some of the ridiculous ways modern men treat and perceive women. While I think using "Hate" in the title is too strong ("resent" is probably a little more appropriate), some of these topics really struck a chord. "We are Trained from Birth to See You As a Decoration" and "Feeling that our Manhood was Stolen From Us", were my favorites. "Feeling Powerless" was pretty disturbing because of its dead-on accuracy.

Anyhow, most dudes on WSO have probably been guilty of being chauvinist dicks on the forums at one point or another (myself included). Wondering what you Monkeys think....

Used to think it was Robin from How I Met Your Mother but she's lost some of her hotness over the years but Meghan Markle from Suits has to be atop of the list right now. Smoking hot.

http://www.google.co.uk/search?q=meghan+markle+hot...

Discuss.

What race are you, would you date a black woman and other ethnic minorities?...I ask this because wall street is full of caucasian people so.....just thought it would be interesting to post