Could you describe your dream girl ?
Just how she looks, acts, and just overall type of girl is perfect for you.
What about a girls personality and interests/skills (nothing sexual) are a total turn on?
Just how she looks, acts, and just overall type of girl is perfect for you.
What about a girls personality and interests/skills (nothing sexual) are a total turn on?
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girl next door vibes is the way to go
In terms of looks?
white basic blondes are the way imo
My dream girl and in my opinion anyone's dream girl would be the girl they would end up spending the rest of their life most comfortable and loving to.
I am in my 20s and I have stopped pursuing every girl stereotype I see. I dated every type. And I would say I am really lucky to be in love at a young age with a girl who is multi-racial (I am too but this is about her) her beauty is like, godlike like yes godlike. She has mesmerising sparkly cat eyes. Beautiful body and tailbone. And we fell in love as kids.
Search for the perfect one and never stop giving up. You will eventually find them is my tip. I lost my lover once but luckily I fought and to find her and win her back. She is loyal and loving and very beautiful. God send. The fact I have to say this twice is how beautiful she is both in and out. Once you found the perfect one. It doesn't matter how many 6s or 7s you slayed. The only girls you ever will remember is your 8,9 and 10s and her. The rest is just white noise. I have stopped on my pursuit for other woman. I am set in life and I hope you guys will be able to find the perfect one :)
Like I fucking promise you guys. My current girl is like a fucking 100/10. Like not even exaggerating. How I met her is like fate. I don't know how to say it. But haha she liked me first B)
By the way thank you OP. I'll text her right now and tell her how much I love her. I love you too OP and everyone taking time to read my post. Hope you and yours are staying safe and well :) Bless up!
You're the exact opposite of Patrick Bateman.
Happy for you!!
Hahagaahah I used to be like Patrick. Like very narcissistic and bipolar. I still some what am (everyone is in this industry) but I found some LUVVVVV
Are you one of those people who calls themselves bipolar, but in fact are not diagnosed bipolar?
How's the sex with her?
Truth or lies, I hope you are happy.
Tell us the story of how you lost her and got her back! In a similar situation cause of my fuck up
Okay. I can't really give exact details since it would blow my cover. I know some of my co-workers are on here ahha.
I basically did something really fucked up. Not because I didn't care for her. But basically I broke up with her right on before her law exam. And it was like her first school year abroad. It shut her down mentally. I had family issues at the time and I was really toxic which collateral on our relationship and changed my emotions (bipolar-ish) and I decided to fuck everything and break everything of with everyone (coincidentally she had her exam I knew that after). We stopped talking for 2 months but still stay in contact as she was confused why I did it and still had deep feelings for me (and I still too but I didn't knew it was there). We got on and off until one day I realised I couldn't live without her. Texted her and confessed everything about my therapy sessions and why was I like that. She forgave me and we move on. I place her on the controlling side of the relationship now. As I believe she should steer our relationship as 1. I owe her a lot of trust 2. She is a great captain and really cares for both of us 3. We legit never fight when we are together we just argue for fun on texts when we are far apart so we don't miss each other. There is not much tip. Love is love man, it's just a very primitive thing. If she really loves you and you are truthful and honest with her (trust me girls can sense it) and really care for her. She would love you so much so would sacrifice for you and as you should do the same for her too. If she really is the one. Don't waste your time. Go win her back. Text her. If she is with another guy. Fuck him. He is shit compared to what you guys had before. He is just the side character.
Do you love her?
Yes.
How do you know?
Things just doesn't make sense without her.
GO WIN HER BACK. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS.
Btw if anyone needs relationship advice or need a bro. Feel free to hit me up on dm and I'll provide my IG or LinkedIn gahaha. Life's too short to hold secrets and not let some of the current industry people and WSO to acknowledge your existence.
nvm i broke her heart again. i realised she was just toxic and fishing me
What happened with your relationship if you don't mind sharing?
My dream girl in college is a little different than my current dream girl. I had a type for awhile, 6ft, blonde, CA vibes - dated one while I was at CC in southern CA, then met another while I was at Berkeley. Had to live being in the outdoors, whether it was hiking or spending the day soaking up some rays at the beach. Other than that, I liked how independent they were, the passion they showed for things they were interested in, and of course looks (one from Cal ran track and the former was a classic sorority girl at UCLA). I always looked forward to seeing them and it was easy spending time with them.
Looks have fallen down the priority list (still relevant though), and I’ve since found my dream girl. Quite different in looks from my prior type: a bit shorter, brunette, mixed race. We ended up moving in together when she followed me away from NYC as I accepted a new job. Going back to quality time together, this was basically forced on us due to the pandemic lol, but we’ve said now that we made it through that and came out on the other side intact, we’re stronger because of it (some very hard times in a new city, new living environment with someone you just saw on the weekends previously, and navigating all the emotions throughout). The thing I love about her is her selflessness - she deeply cares about me, persuades me to pursue my interests (very helpful during my IB recruiting lateral from credit), and we also have similar ambitions for life. She’s driven, loves working out with me, loves pigging out on good food with me, loves traveling with me, and can also just spend a casual day at the park with me. At the end of the day, that’s who I see myself spending the rest of my life with. Not to mention, she just landed a finance manage role so we’ll be living the awesome DINK life for a bit :)
LETS GO!
I don't think I'll ever be able to date someone without an accent.
Kudos for you bro
French and Indian accents are the worst in English.
The hottest thing I've ever experienced ever in the history of the cosmos is an Indian woman with a slight British accent and an Ethiopian woman with a slight British accent. Holy greggin' hell.
???
But everyone has an accent.
My frat bro can do perfect Indian accent. Lmk if you're interested.
Blonde, blue eyed six pack abs. probably either Swiss/Austrian or from the nordics. Also preferably just a little shorter than me. Oh and no foreskin. That's just unpleasant. Smart and kind too.
Seriously, date somebody you want to wake up next to monday morning, not somebody you want to take home saturday night. We all grow old and disgusting, but nice friends are forever. I've got enough dancers and porn stars in my back pocket to tell you that it's only fun for about an hour.
foreskin??! Are we talking guy or girl
A feminine dude apparently.
Are you a gay male or masculine woman?
As much as the "wild" smoking hot chicks are fun to mess around with in college/20's, that's not who I'd like to eventually marry.
I'd love to marry a thin, 5'6-7 Italian Catholic who understands the importance of a tight family and who appreciates more traditional gender roles. As much as a good career is nice, if I'm bringing in good money, a woman who can raise children and take care of the home would be more beneficial to me. IMO I do not think degrees and job titles make a woman a better partner. A job like a nurse, teacher, OT/PT would be ideal so she can focus on family during peak child-raising years. Call me sexist, but I an entitled to my own opinions.
In terms of personality, I would like a wife who is fun but not too crazy. Some catholic girls I know are so anti drinking and partying. I do not want to end up with one of those girls.
She also cannot be an SJW.
These preferences are not strict. I'd honestly be open to dating girls of many races (although at least being Christian is a must) as long as they are attractive and share my value set.
As someone who had way too many years of Jesuit education, don't trust catholics. I did drop a $50k donation to my high school a couple years back.
You’re telling someone not to trust 1.3 billion people? That doesn’t make sense.
I’m in a similar boat, particularly when it comes to finding a future wife who’s both fun and has values.
I also don’t care if she’s pulling in dough or not, all I really care about is that she has a baseline level of intelligence. After all, she’s probably going to be the one teaching my kids their times tables and ABCs while I’m still grinding so she can’t be dumb.
I’m hoping for a woman who holds up well into her late fifties, and really someone who’s just cool as shit and gets me. Someone who doesn’t make me walk around egg shells when I talk to her, someone who I can just enjoy day-to-day life with.
I think I also want someone I can pray with on a daily basis. My strength coach in college was in the NBA for 20 years and he said 80% of professional sports marriages fail (I’d imagine high finance marriages fail at a similar rate), but that couples who pray together, stay together.
I float in and out of going to church on weekends, but my faith is really important to me and I’d want someone who would help me enhance it. HOWEVER, they also can’t be a complete prude and not ever want to drink or do fun shit either. There’s gotta be a balance, and I have yet to this balance in a girl
You hit the target there. I go to a catholic school and I'm involved with catholic stuff on campus. There are some catholic girls who literally cringe at any somewhat inappropriate joke, refuse to drink, and have no personality outside catholicism. This one girl was like "omg it's crazy that people are partying during the week!" The right type of girls are the ones in the middle who have strong faith but are also fun to be around.
how many kids do you want? catholic school or no
My past relationship she was very uptight, given she was an amazing girl and absolutely a 10/10. She hated when I did drugs (she even hated nicotine) partied, hung out with people from my hometown and just people she didn’t consider worthy. Honestly, a girl that is just cool w who I am and keeps me on my toes.
Also: blonde, athletic (need a D1 kid), and not a starfish
Blonde blue eyes, 5’7-5’9
19-24 yo, fertile, submissive, supportive
Not career focused, family focused with appreciation for traditional gender roles
Virgin
A reader
No social media account
Submissive and breedable NICE!
Really? don't do a virgin. It's always awkward. Out of 200+ the virgins were the worst.
She can learn. I have patience. I'm territorial so I don't fancy women who had been used by other men.
I've only ever fucked virgins but good luck finding one at those ages. Definitely understand the draw though
How’s it like with the virgins? Is it something that’s turns you on? Dating virgins ?
Twink that goes the gym, but is small enough I can throw around.
Tasteful
Damn right they're tasteful.
Looks: Halle Berry
Acts: works hard, plays hard
Personality: strong work ethic, deeply feminine and proud of it.
Skills: can cook, laugh and understands the importance of traveling with a global mindset.
The rest, we can discover together.
Halle berry is such a dime. I wish. Ong
Just her looks, nothing else.
No, I can't remember my dreams. next question.
A girl that is actually interested in me
This is underrated
Not worth dreaming because I am a literal potato.
Attractive (to me), black hair, petite, pleasant face.
More importantly - Outdoorsy, active, sporty (especially niche sports like skating & equestrian), a good skier. Adventurous and a bit of an adrenaline junkie. A desire to travel extensively.
Ambitious. Girls in STEM or tech are great. I dated a quantum physicist and she was fascinating to talk to. It's nice to hear about non-financial industries.
For personality, I've done well with girls who don't take things too seriously. Someone who can have fun and relax when we have down time. I really like girls who can indulge and enjoy things without guilt, like dinner at a nice place. Also confident girls who think highly of themselves. One long term girlfriend could not be convinced that she was hot. Completely eroded any trust we had and I was always suspected of cheating. Later dated a girl of similar attractiveness who never doubted she was stunning. Night and day improvement so I do look out for that quality.
I've had two great long relationships and they both were a lot like the above. I think my criteria are broad enough that I meet enough girls with a lot of these traits. Obviously no one will hit every mark but I've seen girls come close. My main limiting factor is geography, both times long distance killed it so I don't play that game anymore. If she's not in your city it's not worth it.
you in SF?
Will be for full time, yeah.
Elisha Herbert
American, preferably of English, Scottish, or Dutch heritage. Episcopalian, Presbyterian, or Methodist preferred. Conservative, college educated.
Will also accept a Protestant Northern Irish, Afrikaner, or Danish girl.
The fucked up thing is, I dated someone like this for awhile and I messed it up.
Asian, round ass, fantasy hair colors, tattoos. Feminine. Interests: embracing her femininity. Personality: nice, easy to talk to.
Thought u wanted Halle Berry looking chick
I wouldn't decline that. What I was saying was that I met a girl who looks like the hotter version of Halle Berry and she was so hot that it made my eyes bleed. And her rejection of me was brutal. BRUTAL. Reminded me of my place in the dating hierarchy.
Down bad for Asian chicks I guess. Just make sure you aren't weird about it bro
Dua Lipa
Just someone who's a good human being and has values. So much trash out there these days.
If she's not an SJW and is good w/ kids, Michelle Jenneke.
Sheesh, never been in a relationship so just someone who is loyal and likes me. Like the bare minimum.
Karolina Sevastyanova
Ideal gf: I like her, and she likes me back.
lol ya, her liking you back and being into you is underrated
HYP grad, WASP last name that needs to have a prestigious ring (if it's double-barrelled, even better), at least one of: -trust fund -parents' net worth above 10mm. Gotta keep the bloodline impeccable
Kind, sweet, compassionate, loving, and physically affectionate. Must be emotionally open, and not judge me or think less of me when I want to vent/need comfort.
Being good with kids and animals is not required, or even expected, but it would be a huge plus. Must have a sense of humor, of course. Or at least able to take a joke.
My physical type is pretty much summarized in Amber Lancaster
What about @boutinela models ? You don’t like em???
Until now I have never heard of that brand, sorry. will look into that.
That's a lot of make-up!
Yes - most actresses, models, entertainers or TV folks wear a lot of make-up.
She is the girl from the The Hard Times Of RJ Berger and she is also on The Price Is Right.
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What made her so special ?
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