Just as a warning, the following will probably be really unreal to some of you guys.
So basically I planned to move abroad to study but neither my parents or my girlfriend of 3 years wants this. (Told you it will seem ridiculous)
So I'm 19M and my parents, as well as girlfriend, are already talking about marriage. I told them that I won't even consider about marrying before 30, which especially my mom and girlfriend disagree with. My mum wants me to have an engagement once I'm 23. And my Girlfriend wants to have her first child not later than 27. I guess all of you guys would just break up with her BUT my whole family knows of this girl, so they would probably disown me from the family if I break up with her.
And also she's an extremely caring and lovely girl, she spent more than a $1000 dollars on me to help me get educated and get the paperwork done to apply to college etc. (I'm afraid that I will never find such a person again). And to be honest, she isn't the brightest and will probably not even attend college, also she actually told me that she will commit suicide if I break up with her since I took her virginity. (And she definitely is crazy enough to do is)
Well, I guess I'm just wondering if you guys think following your dream is worth to likely get disowned by your family and possibly be the reason why a human lost their life.