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Chill out bro - I get where you're coming from. First off, highly doubt those girls are heartbroken. They probs moved on a day later after they messaged back one of the 200 dudes in their DMs. 2nd, yeah sex can be addicting. We are biologically wired to want to fuck so that we can populate the world with our offspring.

You're missing the point though. OP implied he got bored of girl 1 and moved on to girl 2 then to girl 3, etc. without any feelings of remorse. It's pretty clear he called the relationships off himself due to boredom and trying to get a new kick and then kept moving on to the next. Maybe those 2 really do have many side guys like you say, but I think it's difficult to argue that if he continues this lifestyle he won't be hurting some girls in the process. Worst case scenario he cheats on his wife and family a decade down the road. 

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You have the responsibility to yourself to preserve your own sense of honor. And to the public this is your reputation.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
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This is not a big deal. Carry on, just make sure you don't get a VD or an unwanted child.

Unplanned you mean? Unwanted is kinda harsh.

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Some of the former commenters who are saying "It's no big deal" do the same things you do and simply don't care anymore. You're right though that this isn't normal and you should strive to be different. 

One thing you can't get back is your virginity. That's gone and you'll never be the same. But since you've realized the wrong you've done, you can change your life from that of a brave new world dystopia to one where you can enter a loving relationship and be the loyal strong man you want to be. 

The best way to start is to see if you can join a church on campus. I'm not saying the theology will all make sense (I know for me it doesn't), but at a minimum you'll be surrounded by people who are at least trying to live a better life and striving to be the type of person you want to be. Also, miracles do happen at church and God can change you into the person that you want to be. 

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When you're on a hot streak you gotta press it like blackjack. If you already feel like shit, you might as well keep clappin' cheeks for a bit and get it outta your system. How much shittier can you feel? To be honest, I highly doubt these 2 girls are heartbroken when you're just learning how to slang pickle, but I could be wrong. As someone above said, they are probably getting 100 DMs daily, they'll be okay. 

 

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