How drunk is too drunk to hook up?
Serious question from a guy who has had way too much woke, college, #metoo culture thrown at me. I feel like of all places wso would give me the most honest, no nonsense answer.
I was at a party last weekend talking to girls. Then this one beautiful girl (probably an 8-9) went up to me and sparked a conversation with me. We talked for a few minutes with minimal touching until her friends left (and she came with them), but I definitely think she was into me. Problem is, she was drunk, which is why I didn't make a more aggressive move to try to make out/get with her (she had slurred speech, it wasn't like she was blacking out). I have been told that "hooking up with a drunk girl is rape" by many people at my uni, and this has caused me to hesitate a little when talking to girls. One time a few years ago, I made out at a party with this girl and afterwards my feminist 'friend' went up to me and was like "you assaulted her because she was drunk" even though she was perfectly conscious and she initiated it!!
But obviously this is a bunch of nonsense. I would never manipulate a girl who is unconscious and unable to make decisions for herself. But if she goes up to me and initiates, is it really an issue if she's drunk? I feel like a lot of drunk people want to get with someone- that's why everyone drinks at clubs and bars. What would you say the line should be between too drunk and ok to hook up with?
Thanks, and I'm sorry I am spamming the off topic board with another dating post, lmao :)