So I got the inspiration reading a post in the IB forum on the dating topic and I thought about asking WSO what your ideal girl looks like. Basically, I am have been going out with this girl who is very cute and I get along with very well, like I can talk with her for hours, we have fun, etc. I think she is into me and I think it's time to define what we want to be. My only hesitation is that she is not very alpha and career-focused. Like she went to an ok university for an ok subject, but I don't think she is gonna clear half a million a year at any point in her lifetime. And she doesn't even want to, she doesn't have any huge dream she wants to accomplish. I have always had my dream as my north star in life (going to a target, landing a quant job, etc) and that has always come before everything. She was saying stuff like "I would move city and job to stay with someone if I think he is the love of my life" which is something I don't think I would ever do tbh. So I guess I fear that she may negatively affect my ambition.
What do you guys think, do you prefer girls who are more focused on the family and have a less prestigious job or those focused on their careers like us? The latter seem more attractive right now, but maybe those of you who are 10 yrs into their careers have a different pov and prefer a girl who is actually at home when you come from the office.