Is it normal to be almost 30 and only date girls who are 18-20?
I'll spare you guys my typical philosophical preface and cut to the chase.
I'm nearly 30, and have never dated a girl older than 20. As a non believer of commitment and long-term relationships, I usually don't tell girls my age, and likewise, they rarely ask (and simply assume I'm the same age they are). It helps that nearly every stranger says I look like an undergrad. I'm 6'1'', so it's obviously not a height thing.
While the general societal "norms" are of no concern to me (hence why I keep doing what I'm doing), sometimes I wonder what would happen if, say, one of her parents found out. Does it fall outside the scope of acceptability?
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I bring this up here and now because I've been talking with a girl on and off for a month now. She showed me her instagram account yesterday, and I was able to get her last name and did a quick search. Found out her dad is senior exec (as in a Chief ___ Officer) of a large multinational financial services company. She just turned 18 and is starting her freshman year next month.
Normally this would be a non-issue. I'd do what needs to be done and move on (excuse the pun).
But to say I'm not (slightly) intimidated/hesitant would be untrue.
Most likely it'll be a non-issue. She always texts me saying how she "misses me", (keeping in mind she has never met me in person yet. But given my personality, this happens too often).
If a girl truly has feelings for a guy, then age is irrelevant(?)
Funny, this ended up being more a post of self-assurance than actual seeking of advice.
Whatever.
1/2 your age + 7 is the minimum bro
And how did you come up with that formula? LMFAO
Always been written in the guy code
Have you really never heard of half plus 7? It's been established for a long time.
Monaco is there something wrong with this? Obviously not from a legal stand point but I think you know the answer whether this falls in or outside the scope of acceptability.
Are you after a woman with a developed brain or that "good good" for a lack of a better PC word is the question
You should give up Tinder (im assuming thats where you talk to a lot of young girls since you havent met her before) and join a Yoga class that's where I get the best good good. last month i got with a forever21 model and now i can get run over by a bus and say ive worked on both types of models before
you work at a hedge fund man you're a young master of the universe, you can do better than a freshman in college
How can you stand the conversation, and not want to blow your brains out. Conversing with women under 25 is painful. Sure, when you are in your late 30's and want to settle down younger can buy you time to start a family, but she's already over 30, and likely has reached the maturity threshold where you can actually talk. Although some people are just idiots.
From a different stand point, girls under 20 who understand that you have money and they want to make you happy, that is solid. There is an unspoken understanding that you should never cross unless you want to look like Connor Roy from Succession.
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Girls like that are the best! Just remember to sterilize prior to banging without a condom. You don't want mini-hipster offspring.
No problemo, keep on brother
No its' not.
No but it’s fuckin great!
Do what you love buddy.
If she was born during or after 2000 she's too young buddy
While its not illegal...when the age diff is more than 4-5 years...you are over the age of 24, you really shouldn't be dating girls under 21. Presumably you'll grab drinks together at some point...and that mens you'll be prividing alcohol to an underage girl...which creates a huge negative stigma. However, girls older than 21, there should not be an issue with social stigma.
Girls under 21 tend to be so very inexperienced on the mental / psychological level...they think they are mature...but they really aren't...and you know exactly what i'm talking about. However, by the time girls are over 21, they usually have had enough life experience where you won't be taking advantage of their naivete.
Not a legal thing....but a social stigma thing...and this should be pretty obvious.
I went through undergrad a bit older (started at 26yo - Im 31 now). Obviously had no problems going on dates or hooking up with younger girls, but I started to seriously date this one chick 7 years younger than me. Took me a while to get comfortable with it tbh. Was actually a bit shook to meet her parents at first but eventually got over it.
Not a fucken snowballs chance in hell I'd date a girl under 20 and go meet her parents now unless there was something insanely extraordinary about her to provoke me to do so. Honestly not sure how you can date girls who are 18. How do you relate to them? Their immaturity alone would likely turn me off. Wtf do you even talk about. Feel like all they'd go on about at that age is high school still.
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I'd say it is pretty manipulative and cruel, but not because of the age thing. OP is only after sex and doesn't want long term relationships, but the girls he talks to clearly are, as they text him romantic things. Older girls would be able to tell he's using them for sex, so he seeks out young ones without much experience.
The best thing to do for both you and them would be to indicate you clearly want to fuck. But my guess is, you, like almost all guys, don't fall into the one night stand stud category for most women so you have to pretend you're serious in order to get sex.
You are an absolute cuck just stop posting already holy shit
Man i thought monacomonkey was back instead someoen bumped a thread fuck
This is weird lol. Are you specifically seeking out girls who are literally just leaving school??
Absolutely. In fact, any self-respecting man should recognize that dating younger girls is the only way. if you're 28 and she's 20 then that's perfect. Keep in mind that girls mature way faster than guys also. Plus as girls get older they are set in their ways and usually have baggage which you don't want to deal with. All the successful couples I've seen is where the guy is older than the girl and tends to be more succesfull/earn more.
Where's my boy @Isaiah when u need him
Wtf? How are you talking to 17 year olds as a 30 year old man?
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