Should I invite my neurotic PM to my wedding? I don't want to, but what are the consequences?
Long story short, I'm a senior analyst at a small fund, with my PM and junior analyst (who is new and who I train). I really hate my PM (he's a psychopath, overbearing, and is often abusive) --only reason I stick around is for the pay check and end-of-year carry (which is substantial), and my PM won't get rid of me because I manage too much of the book of and I've shown the ability to generate profitable ideas. I even got promoted lol. Anyways, I'm planning my wedding, and the last person on earth I want to invite is my boss. He's a total a**hole, and I hate him with my guts. How do I break to him that I'm not inviting him to my wedding? He knows I'm engaged, and has even made jokes about him getting the wedding card invite soon. How do I go about this without jeopardizing my career here? Also, would he even let me go on my honeymoon if he's not invited to my wedding? Also, the wedding is happening sometime in 2021, when COVID eventually ends.