Why Motivational Speakers Don't Work
One of the most common practices at corporate meetings is to invite a motivational speaker to present to the assembled businesspeople. The idea seems reasonable. Have someone with a compelling story and great speaking skills fire up the audience and motivate them to new heights in their individual and team efforts. Improved performance, it follows logically, means improved productivity and greater corporate profitability.
What could be wrong with getting the “troops” excited and raring to go? Have you ever listened to a motivational talk, for example, The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch? Have you ever read a motivating book such as Born to Run? Or watched a motivating film like Hoosiers? How do you feel after? Well, motivated, right? What a great feeling! You’re ready to take on the world. You’re brimming with confidence. Your eye is on the prize and, by gosh, that prize is yours!
But then something rather deflating happens that makes the company’s commitment of money and time committed to a motivational speaker seem like a pretty bad investment. You wake up the next morning and the motivation is gone. You’re still the same old you. And you may even feel worse about yourself because, after the previous day’s motivation, your failure to take even one small step towards your career goals is all the more glaring.
So what happened? The truth is that you, and millions of other people looking for motivation to change their lives, have been hoodwinked by the “motivation-industrial complex,” a multi-billion dollar industry. Why, you ask? Because the motivation that comes from other people is manufactured from the outside. This “synthetic” motivation simply can’t last long because when the source of the motivation (i.e. the talk, film, or book) is gone, its shelf life is very short.
True and lasting motivation can’t, unfortunately, come from outside. It must arise from a very deep place within us. This life-changing motivation verily forces its way out of us, demanding that we take action. That is the motivation that propels people to monumental acts of courage, willpower, perseverance, and, ultimately, change.
Also, the motivation that comes from talks, movies, or books is designed to provoke maximum motivation (that’s what sells), but provide minimal follow-through. The reality is that motivation is a necessary, but not sufficient, contributor to positive change. Yes, motivation gets you out of bed and into the office every day, but motivation to change without a clear direction to change has little value. Also, motivation and direction aren’t even sufficient if you lack the knowledge, skills, or support necessary to catalyze action towards your goals.
Okay, I will give a little and say that it is theoretically possible for motivation from others to inspire change. A very small segment of the motivation-deficient population is teetering on the edge of change and just needs the slightest nudge of motivation which they might get from outside of themselves. Or the inspiration generated from the outside is very immediate, deep, and resonant, such as the courageous efforts of a CEO to keep a company afloat. Or the sports coach who gives a rousing pep talk to their team at half time and the team comes back to the field “en fuego” (but the motivation usually fades by the end of the third quarter).
Our culture venerates the inspirational leader, whether a president, CEO, military officer, coach, or teacher. There are some who have the ability to motivate others to new heights. Jack Welch, the former CEO of General Electric, was said to have had that magic touch. General George Patton had it. And the legendary UCLA basketball coach John Wooden had it.
But the “it” that these and others had was not, as most people think, their ability to create that burst of motivation during, say, an economic downturn, a battle, or the big game. Instead, what makes the great motivators so, well, motivating is their ability to help others find their own personal motivation every day. It is that personal motivation that inspires people to have a vision of what they want to achieve, work hard and prepare well so they have not only a clear direction in sight, but also the actual wherewithal to get where they want to go.
So, next time you want to feel that wonderful rush of motivation, go ahead and watch a motivating movie, read a motivating book, or listen to a motivating speaker. But if you want real motivation, the kind that will consume every pore of your body, sustain itself not only through the next morning, but many mornings to come, and drives you to achieve your goals, look deep inside and see if you can find it within you. Because you sure won’t find it anywhere else.
And if you’re a corporate event planner, think twice next time before you hire that motivational speaker. Instead, think about how you can better use that time and money that you would have spent on the manufactured and short-lived motivation and give your company’s employees some information and tools that might actually improve their performances. Or just use that money to give them a good time, which will probably do more for their motivation than a motivational speaker.
That's what I noticed about myself that it wasn't motivation that I was lacking but discipline. I would watch a motivational movie or read some inspiring quote and I would be like "Yeah,anything is possible,I can do anything,all I have to do is get started". After the previous day I would wake up and spend my day barely doing anything and would ask myself how come this is happening because I feel motivated and have perfectly good reasons to get the job done until I came to the realization that I was actually lacking discipline. Also try to get a "Do it now" mentality instead "I'll do it another time".
Now for a quote:"The secret of getting ahead is getting started" - Mark Twain.
tl;dr
They don't work because most people are extremely apathetic and most people already know on some level they should be more proactive or motivated.
Exactly. I'm a little disappointed that OP didn't mention discipline in particular. I feel like motivation is a huge scam and those that are successful are prosperous through discipline, not some confabulated spur of the moment motivation. Of course deep motivation does have an effect, it can cause you to make goals, but it will not force you to pursue them. Take WSO for example, most people probably found this website because they once had a deep motivation which allowed them to make IB their goal. But is it what allows them to get up every morning, network their asses off, improve communication skills, hold a 3.8+ GPA in school? No, that's what I like to call "discipline" my friend.
Exactly. I'm a little disappointed that OP didn't mention discipline in particular. I feel like motivation is a huge scam and those that are successful are prosperous through discipline, not some confabulated spur of the moment motivation. Of course deep motivation does have an effect, it can cause you to make goals, but it will not force you to pursue them. Take WSO for example, most people probably found this website because they once had a deep motivation which allowed them to make IB their goal. But is it what allows them to get up every morning, network their asses off, improve communication skills, hold a 3.8+ GPA in school? No, that's what I like to call "discipline" my friend.
Exactly. I'm a little disappointed that OP didn't mention discipline in particular. I feel like motivation is a huge scam and those that are successful are prosperous through discipline, not some confabulated spur of the moment motivation. Of course deep motivation does have an effect, it can cause you to make goals, but it will not force you to pursue them. Take WSO for example, most people probably found this website because they once had a deep motivation which allowed them to make IB their goal. But is it what allows them to get up every morning, network their asses off, improve communication skills, hold a 3.8+ GPA in school? No, that's what I like to call "discipline" my friend.
Brilliant! This is it right here.
You bring up an interesting point but on the other hand you didn't pretend to be a doctor of god knows what and write 5,000 words so I'm going to go with the OP's view.
If you need some guy on stage to tell you to pick up the pace and start advancing in life, then you already failed. People who are motivated and successful have a certain level of self realization and awareness. Motivational speaking is just like one of those commercials where all these assholes tell you they make $15k per month working 4 hours a day from home because they bought this one book for 3 easy payments of $12.99.
There should be enough motivation in the idea that I am out there fucking your wife.
Solid post overall. For more read How will you measure your life. There isn't any other book that come close to really understanding what motivates you and how you can motivates people.
I remember when they'd bring in 'motivational speakers' for kids in middle school and high school. It'd work for a day and then everyone's back to business as usual in no time.
Have to disagree with most people here. I genuinely enjoy "motivational speakers." This despite the fact that I am already a very disciplined person and I am able to kick myself into gear when necessary.
Great motivational speakers don't really provide motivation per se, instead they provide a set of tools and frameworks to help you better understand and motivate yourself. I think this is very valuable. Like with anyone else, listening to their stories is a learning opportunity where you take what you can use and move on.
You're putting the cart in front of the horse. You enjoy them BECAUSE you're already a very disciplined person so you get to revel in your accomplishments and nod along while they're talking while picking up additional anecdotes that you can relate to.
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