Would you date an ex-prostitute?

If you met a girl who was nice, friendly, and pretty, but you found out about her past, would you still date her?

One of the girls at my neighborhood nail salon recently confessed to me that she used to have sex for money, but is now terrified that the person she's currently dating will leave her if she tells him the truth. I think it's sad, but I hope her boyfriend turns out to have the Save A Ho complex. Interested to hear if WSO guys have ever found themselves in this situation and what you would do if you were with a girl like this.

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Comments (96)

Oct 6, 2012

No.

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Oct 6, 2012

Why did the nail salon girl talked to you..does she like you ? Ahh it's girls talk...Secrets to secrets...

Let's cut the crap, women are not victims, it's a choice and one of the most delectable ones.

When I was talking to Ho's they were all telling me, straight forward, that they had the best job in the world. Now that's candid talk.

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Oct 6, 2012
Financier4Hire:

Why did the nail salon girl talked to you..does she like you ? Ahh it's girls talk...Secrets to secrets...

Let's cut the crap, women are not victims, it's a choice and one of the most delectable ones.

When I was talking to Ho's they were all telling me, straight forward, that they had the best job in the world. Now that's candid talk.

Was that English?

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Oct 6, 2012

well if she lied to him about her past - no

however, if she was all clean and is an amazing girl, hell why not...
they might be a great match, dunno

Best Response
Oct 6, 2012

Yes. All girls are essentially prostitutes, some just don't get paid.

GBS

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Oct 6, 2012
GoldmanBallSachs:

Yes. All girls are essentially prostitutes, some just don't get paid.

Man... you beat me to the South Park Punchline.

Oh well.

Oct 6, 2012
GoldmanBallSachs:

Yes. All girls are essentially prostitutes, some just don't get paid.

True. SB point for you.

When you say some don't get paid, that means that rather than exchanging sex for cash they go a step further, and marry into money, for example. They'll marry a guy with a big job (You'll hear "I've fallen in love with Joe" but in essence it's prostitution. If Joe was a dishwasher or unemployed that "falling in love" would have never happened. That's how the world works.

Oct 6, 2012

Clearly none of you guys have seen Disney's 1992 masterpiece, Alladin, wherein the rich princess falls for the romantic street rat.

Oct 6, 2012
Boothorbust:

Clearly none of you guys have seen Disney's 1992 masterpiece, Alladin, wherein the rich princess falls for the romantic street rat.

I know you meant it as a joke, but that situation happens more often than most people would guess. That being said, when it comes to marriage both women AND men prefer to marry someone of their own social class or higher. Let's not pretend that men are the romantic victims of scheming gold-diggers. [/preach-mode]

I would feel differently about an ex-prostitute vs a promiscuous girl. At least the promiscuous girl was honestly just acting on her feelings - the ex-prostitute thing would make me pause. And I say these even though the girl who does my nails is a genuinely nice person.

Oct 6, 2012
biglawgirlfriend:
Boothorbust:

Clearly none of you guys have seen Disney's 1992 masterpiece, Alladin, wherein the rich princess falls for the romantic street rat.

I know you meant it as a joke, but that situation happens more often than most people would guess. That being said, when it comes to marriage both women AND men prefer to marry someone of their own social class or higher. Let's not pretend that men are the romantic victims of scheming gold-diggers. [/preach-mode]

I would feel differently about an ex-prostitute vs a promiscuous girl. At least the promiscuous girl was honestly just acting on her feelings - the ex-prostitute thing would make me pause. And I say these even though the girl who does my nails is a genuinely nice person.

A girl who WANTED to go out and sleep with all those people vs one who had to do it for the money? I'm not so sure you've called that one correctly!

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Oct 6, 2012

sure, after a blood test.

Oct 6, 2012

No.

Here to learn and hopefully pass on some knowledge as well. SB if I helped.

Oct 7, 2012

What price range are we talking about here? That makes ALL the difference.

Actually, she has kept this secret from her boyfriend after they've been dating for how long? If it's been more than 6 months or so, she ought to be dumped.

And why are YOU cheering for her in the first place? Do you think so little of men that they ought to be lied to even about these important things?

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Oct 7, 2012
<span class=keyword_link><a href=//www.wallstreetoasis.com/company/goldman-sachs rel=nofollow>GS</a></span>:

Actually, she has kept this secret from her boyfriend after they've been dating for how long? If it's been more than 6 months or so, she ought to be dumped.

And why are YOU cheering for her in the first place? Do you think so little of men that they ought to be lied to even about these important things?

Agree with this 100%.

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Oct 7, 2012

I would think it's a terrible idea given the fact that someone who did that almost certainly has way more emotional baggage than a normal person would want to deal with. They certainly would never be marriage material in my book.

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Apr 5, 2013
SirTradesaLot:

I would think it's a terrible idea given the fact that someone who did that almost certainly has way more emotional baggage than a normal person would want to deal with. They certainly would never be marriage material in my book.

Never is doing too much and almost certainly someone who did that has way more emotional baggage than a normal person? That was ignorant of you my sister "did" that she's still normal you speak of "them" as if they're not human smh. How many prostitutes or ex pros. Do you know and know well? Yes it's wrong for her to lie and keep it from him but if he thinks like this guy then no their relationship isn't going to work out

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Apr 5, 2013
akingsmommy:
SirTradesaLot:

I would think it's a terrible idea given the fact that someone who did that almost certainly has way more emotional baggage than a normal person would want to deal with. They certainly would never be marriage material in my book.

Never is doing too much and almost certainly someone who did that has way more emotional baggage than a normal person? That was ignorant of you my sister "did" that she's still normal you speak of "them" as if they're not human smh. How many prostitutes or ex pros. Do you know and know well? Yes it's wrong for her to lie and keep it from him but if he thinks like this guy then no their relationship isn't going to work out

Haha. Your sister is not marriage material. Just because she's your sister doesn't change that.

It's like when people say, "that guy Jack is such an asshole". Then someone says, "but he's my brother!". The response should be, "well, you know he's an asshole more than I do then" instead of the normal response of "just kidding bro". Nobody's opinion is changed just because you have a prostitute relative.

Apr 5, 2013
SirTradesaLot:
akingsmommy:
SirTradesaLot:

I would think it's a terrible idea given the fact that someone who did that almost certainly has way more emotional baggage than a normal person would want to deal with. They certainly would never be marriage material in my book.

Never is doing too much and almost certainly someone who did that has way more emotional baggage than a normal person? That was ignorant of you my sister "did" that she's still normal you speak of "them" as if they're not human smh. How many prostitutes or ex pros. Do you know and know well? Yes it's wrong for her to lie and keep it from him but if he thinks like this guy then no their relationship isn't going to work out

Haha. Your sister is not marriage material. Just because she's your sister doesn't change that.

It's like when people say, "that guy Jack is such an asshole". Then someone says, "but he's my brother!". The response should be, "well, you know he's an asshole more than I do then" instead of the normal response of "just kidding bro". Nobody's opinion is changed just because you have a prostitute relative.

LOL. Side note, I think you might have gotten trolled a bit, but I'm not certain.

Apr 6, 2013
Going Concern:
SirTradesaLot:
akingsmommy:
SirTradesaLot:

I would think it's a terrible idea given the fact that someone who did that almost certainly has way more emotional baggage than a normal person would want to deal with. They certainly would never be marriage material in my book.

Never is doing too much and almost certainly someone who did that has way more emotional baggage than a normal person? That was ignorant of you my sister "did" that she's still normal you speak of "them" as if they're not human smh. How many prostitutes or ex pros. Do you know and know well? Yes it's wrong for her to lie and keep it from him but if he thinks like this guy then no their relationship isn't going to work out

Haha. Your sister is not marriage material. Just because she's your sister doesn't change that.

It's like when people say, "that guy Jack is such an asshole". Then someone says, "but he's my brother!". The response should be, "well, you know he's an asshole more than I do then" instead of the normal response of "just kidding bro". Nobody's opinion is changed just because you have a prostitute relative.

LOL. Side note, I think you might have gotten trolled a bit, but I'm not certain.

Clearly your ignorant and there's no changing that. I know plenty girls that were in the same profession some with emotional baggage and others not you can't judge a person off they're "career" choice. And my sister not being marriage material before you speak on people you don't know I suggest you would get to know the person first or just keep your negative and disrespectful comments to yourself. It's obvious you fall under the judge mental group aka you must be a complete douche

Apr 6, 2013
akingsmommy:

Clearly your ignorant

LOL

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May 5, 2017

I think there are a couple of them on this one. Maybe we are part of a gender studies project?

Apr 5, 2013
akingsmommy:
SirTradesaLot:

I would think it's a terrible idea given the fact that someone who did that almost certainly has way more emotional baggage than a normal person would want to deal with. They certainly would never be marriage material in my book.

Never is doing too much and almost certainly someone who did that has way more emotional baggage than a normal person? That was ignorant of you my sister "did" that she's still normal you speak of "them" as if they're not human smh. How many prostitutes or ex pros. Do you know and know well? Yes it's wrong for her to lie and keep it from him but if he thinks like this guy then no their relationship isn't going to work out

Dude...your sister was a prostitute...?

Oct 7, 2012

hell no, the kind of mental issues they must have i dont even know where to begin

Oct 7, 2012

Yes. It's a downfall of mine, but i'm always trying to save some hoes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GavSN92e6vU

Oct 7, 2012

Well, they say you can't turn a ho into a housewife.

May 5, 2017

SB for you good sir

Oct 8, 2012

The topics on here, honestly- might as well be yahoo answers. Despite how much I love "the secret diary of a call girl" on HBO, I would think you need to be sterilized after so much as touching one of those girls.

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Oct 8, 2012
AlexandraB:

The topics on here, honestly- might as well be yahoo answers. Despite how much I love "the secret diary of a call girl" on HBO, I would think you need to be sterilized after so much as touching one of those girls.

Alexandra, there's a world of difference between a 'call-girl' and a street hooker. As far as STD risk goes, the two are in different universes.

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Oct 8, 2012

GS- the work is the same, no? I can't believe I'm actually participating in this. The discussion, not prostitution.

Oct 8, 2012
AlexandraB:

GS- the work is the same, no? I can't believe I'm actually participating in this. The discussion, not prostitution.

No it's not. Not exactly. The first usually implies a lower-risk clientele with lower risk of drug use and STDs. The second is, of course, the ultimate in a high risk lifestyle.
Personally, as I mentioned above, the most odious aspect is the deception. Especially, if this relationship has gone on for near six months to a year. Another nauseating aspect of this is that the OP feels no sense of sympathy with the man being deceived and out of her blithe ignorance thinks that this girl has the right to continue deceiving her boyfriend because she's 'pretty and nice'.

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Oct 8, 2012

Different terrain, same mileage boys

Oct 8, 2012
AlexandraB:

Different terrain, same mileage boys

Thanks for your wise and sage words, oh woman. But it's pretty fuckin stupid to think that the terrain a car has been driven in is irrelevant to the buyer.

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Nov 7, 2012

Dump her. She lies and has a history of debasing herself for money.

Of course it also depends on how ugly and poor he is. lol

Nov 7, 2012

Maybe not a prostitute, but I have dated other girls on the side who were close to this category. They just needed some guidance and some confidence to get themselves out of their ruts. Both are now classy ladies and good friends.

"That dude is so haole, he don't even have any breath left."

Nov 7, 2012

If she was high-end only? Yeah, probably.

Apr 5, 2013
PetEng:

If she was high-end only? Yeah, probably.

All that means is she had sex with tons of lonely old men for money instead and got paid more...

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Apr 9, 2013
CRE:
PetEng:

If she was high-end only? Yeah, probably.

All that means is she had sex with tons of lonely old men for money instead and got paid more...

Yeah, and that's a lot different from a street hooker.

Apr 10, 2013
PetEng:
CRE:
PetEng:

If she was high-end only? Yeah, probably.

All that means is she had sex with tons of lonely old men for money instead and got paid more...

Yeah, and that's a lot different from a street hooker.

CRE:

People white knighting prostitutes is even more ridiculous than captain saving a stripper. Where do people learn that this is ok?

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Nov 8, 2012

I once dated a prostitute for a whole night. I thought it was meant to be, but she wouldn't make it Facebook official..

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Nov 8, 2012

As a male prostitute, I feel I have great insight into this topic. But I wont tell you.

I eat success for breakfast...with skim milk

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Apr 5, 2013

I would not date an ex-prostitute. Some of you guys need standards or laid once in a while. Sheesh

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Apr 6, 2013

Lol how lame. Congrats on your banana points

Apr 6, 2013

Congrats on knowing the only prostitute in the world who is 'marriage material'.

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Apr 6, 2013
SirTradesaLot:

Congrats on knowing the only prostitute in the world who is 'marriage material'.

His sister, no less

Apr 7, 2013
CRE:
SirTradesaLot:

Congrats on knowing the only prostitute in the world who is 'marriage material'.

His sister, no less

You both are complete a.h. Smh they aren't any less a human being as you guys and you two are jerks.

May 5, 2017

There are plenty of ex prostitues who are now doctors, lawyers, etc that have marriages that are lasting longer than any relationship you've been in your entire life. Looks like you are filled with ignorance, too much TV I'd say. Read a book or two hun. Educate yourself.

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Apr 7, 2013

nope i wouldnt

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Apr 7, 2013

I have met and dated one and she "came out" with the truth quite early. I broke it off because of other reasons but this one was a heavy factor as well.

It all depends I would say - if everything else is a fit and you guys get a long fine... then why not?! It also relies on how you were raise or where your moral lines are drawn.

If you don't know what to do - there are so many others out there!

Apr 7, 2013

People white knighting prostitutes is even more ridiculous than captain saving a stripper. Where do people learn that this is ok?

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Apr 10, 2013

No way.

I detest that some women can even get away with being "high class" prostitutes.

Enough posters here work very hard and long hours and deal with cuts elsewhere (less family time, among many others) in order to make good money. Why should someone with good genes get paid well for just letting someone use her body?

Almost as bad are the wealthy clients who waste money, that could have been spent better elsewhere, on the women.

A call girl may have every other quality going for them, but the fact that they chose that profession, even if just for a short time when they were younger, speaks volumes about some quality of them. Some quality that I am not interested in.

May 5, 2017

You must be a real class act yourself then, a saint huh? Got it all together right? No emotional damage, just a perfect specimen of a human being. I'd hope so with an opinion so strong about another human being. Remember your not speaking on another species, your speaking about a species of your own kind there buddy. They don't share 98% of your DNA like a monkey sweetie.....believe it or not, deep down inside there's a bit of a prostitue in you!

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Apr 10, 2013

pre or post op?

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Apr 10, 2013
frozencheese:

Why should someone with good genes get paid well for just letting someone use her body?

Similar to intelligent people getting paid well just to let someone use their minds. Sounds like a job to me.

Apr 10, 2013
moneymogul:
frozencheese:

Why should someone with good genes get paid well for just letting someone use her body?

Similar to intelligent people getting paid well just to let someone use their minds. Sounds like a job to me.

You said 'job' he-he.

Apr 10, 2013
SirTradesaLot:
moneymogul:
frozencheese:

Why should someone with good genes get paid well for just letting someone use her body?

Similar to intelligent people getting paid well just to let someone use their minds. Sounds like a job to me.

You said 'job' he-he.

I don't make jokes like that, that's below me.

Apr 11, 2013

Pussy rules the world.

Apr 12, 2013

did anyone else think richard gere in pretty woman?

personally i would never. a real man needs a real woman and prostitutes dont fit that bill. I've ruined relationships before because the girl had been promiscuous before us dating. But like I said, if you have any self worth, you woudnt turn a ho into a housewife, let alone a mother.

"The cheaper the crook, the gaudier the patter"

May 5, 2017

edits

May 5, 2017

I wouldn't marry a man who talks about any woman like this whether she was promiscuous or not. This is a disgusting way to speak about human beings that bare children. You should be ashamed of yourself. What makes your mouth any better than the mouth of a woman who gives oral sex for a living? I'd say your two of a kind. Disgraceful.

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Oct 15, 2017

You say that I should be ashamed of myself because this is a disgusting way to speak about human beings that "bare children". Then you go on to say that "your two of a kind". Is this to mean that such a woman deserves a man that speaks about her in such a way? You're making your point unclear. Using the wrong words (bear/bare and your/you're) also doesn't help.

But I agree with you. I wrote this 4 years ago and my attitude today would be that I still would not date an ex-prostitute but that every woman deserves the recognition of her dignity and so this would not be an acceptable way to talk about a woman.

"The cheaper the crook, the gaudier the patter"

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May 5, 2017

Your apart of the problem.Be the solution.

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May 5, 2017

Any woman can have emotional damage, even a woman who has never prostituted her body. Life can create many different traumas for women and men. It's disturbing to hear that so many people are quick to judge other people when in fact they have issues of their own. Yes we're all entitled to our opinions and there are so many people in this world we have options but we tend to forget as human beings we don't have it all together ourselves. Every person you come in contact with has emotional baggage and issues beyond our understanding based on their own life experiences. How would you feel if you made a mistake and for the rest of your life you were told you are undeserving of another human beings love because of it? That your baggage just simply isn't worth it? We're all humans. Nobody is truly THAT different from another person. Our similarities outweigh our differences. So shouldn't we treat each other as such? What happened to humanity? We've become picky and inhuman. It's disgusting to read these comments and many of you should be ashamed of yourselves. No it isn't right to lie and there is no excuse for it but you have to admit, she wouldn't feel the need to lie if there wasn't such a stigma about having a trouble past as a woman. There are some woman who are in love with being a prostitue and would never consider it a mistake. No they are not victims. But not all woman who have gone down that road are proud of it. And for those woman who have left that life and are scraping through life trying to do better for themselves and their families, I say they deserve love from anyone of you men who say she does not and then some.

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May 5, 2017

Personally, no. I used to know a few ex-strippers and they were all fucked in the head, also they were sluts. They may have not had sex for money, but they did love the bone. Now a woman who used to just fuck for cash probably has an array of issues. I mean, fuck, if you are seeing an ex-whore, then you are seeing a whore and are likely to get burned in the pee hole.

May 5, 2017

Sounds like you caught something and now your bitter about it. Lol that sucks for you! Do yourself a favor, forgive her and don't take it out on every woman who has had a promiscuous past. Oh and strap up next time. Sheesh.

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May 5, 2017

Nope, just been around and known enough people. Seen guys in the army marry strippers and watched the after math. Knew people that lived with them and saw how shit unfolded. When it comes to someone's past, that is part of what defines them. And someone who was fucking for cash probably has little to bring to the table outside of fucking.

May 5, 2017

That's quite a interpretation seeing that you have no real experience in that situation. People (prostitute,stripper) or not are not so one dimensional.....how would you know that's all they had to offer as someone outside looking in? When in your position as the outsider(army friend to confide in) typically your hearing a one-sided story. I'm kinda wishing you were the sad guy that caught something instead seeing that this person who have a good enough perpersective to judge. You'll never know what REALLY happened so try not to make assumptions or pass judgement about something as deep as the human psyche. I mean dude, your opinion wouldn't even hold up in court. Why even bother saying something?

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May 5, 2017

Boy! this forum is filled with men who have been cheated on and they're putting out there revenge by using terms like "whore" and "slut." Very mature gentlemen.

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May 14, 2017

Do yourself a favor and go take a class in basic English grammar. Reading through your posts makes me want to punch myself.

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May 5, 2017

Wait a minute. OP is a girl right? Is she really genuinely interested in help her out?

Why did you write this OP? Did you want that guy from Wall Street who this nail salon girl dates to read this and find out about her?? I don't see how writing this helps this girl in any way.

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May 5, 2017

This world is going to pure crap, no wonder all these woman are damaged, they gave up on all these losers that call themselves men. Quick to judge but don't got a pot to piss in. Get the huge log outta your eye before you try to tweeze out the splinter in another persons eye. Read a freakin book, preferably the Bible. The one without sin may cast the first stone you heartless egotistical insecure twits.

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May 5, 2017

Why is it better to be a prostitute than an analyst at Tobin and Company?

The prostitute gets laid and paid.

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May 5, 2017
<span itemprop=name>Ehmerica</span>:

Why is it better to be a prostitute than an analyst at Tobin and Company?

The prostitute gets laid and paid.

Are you responsible for this?

https://twitter.com/JustineTobin/status/8543813492...

May 6, 2017

Ha! I have got to hand it to her on that one!

May 5, 2017

Nope. Choosing to be a prostitute signals poor decision making skills and a bad upbringing.

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May 13, 2017

I once was on a date with a girl who asked me "if you had to whore yourself out to buy something you really want would you do it? Because I definitely would" Needless to day I never called her back.

So to answer your question, no I would not

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May 13, 2017

Funny because I've had a girl ask me the same. Had the same reaction as you too.

Just an Undergrad trying to get a job. Something you disagree or dislike about my posts? Let me know by PM'ing me or commenting constructive criticism.

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May 13, 2017

Just like I only buy the freshest produce whilst food shopping, I only date virgins.

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May 13, 2017

No because I'm a self-righteous prick.

May 14, 2017

Date: Yes, Marry: Probably Not.

May 14, 2017

She will cheat on him 100%. All it would take is one argument about money.

Oct 17, 2017

The same people who date ex-hookers are the ones who buy used rental cars.
You just don't do it. Unless you plan on re-renting it/her out.

Jan 30, 2018

If it is not wrong having sex before marriage; why would it be wrong if that sex was with a prostitute?

I can empathize that it would be bothersome for some, but then if it is opinions, then it should not be from https://ladys.one/usa-las-vegas.
Regards,

Jan 28, 2019

No one is judging you for your past and experiences. Why are you judging us, the collective posters, based on our beliefs?

Jan 30, 2019
J3llyb3lly123:

Because it comes from a place of ignorance just thought I'd say that you should use your head before making assumption :)

So you are saying the beliefs of the posters on this thread spawn from ignorance. Once again you're judging us without even knowing us.

Perhaps you can take your own advice before casting a single net over this eclectic group of forum members.

Jan 30, 2019
J3llyb3lly123:

Oh my God you really need to stop talking I creeped your page and you are nothing but a wannabe trader cry laughing face good luck in the finance industry you seem to be at the bottom of the food chain with a major coke addiction die laughing

Rich. Enjoy those h3rp3s.

Jan 28, 2019

I'm curious whether there is a relationship between people's opinion and the legal status of prostitution in the country.

I'm from a European country where prostitution is legal and I would date/marry a prostitute. Of course my preferences and no-gos would apply regardless. How many prostitutes would then be eligible, I don't know, probably not many.

Jan 29, 2019

I actually don't know my answer. I think if I heard the whole story like she was between a rock and a hard place and made the best decision that was available to her at the time, I might be understanding.

I think that sort of thing would come out eventually though, if she likes the guy she needs to tell him pronto, or even bring it up in a what if scenario to gauge how he would hypothetically feel about the situation. Otherwise you gotta pull that band off quick, if it bleeds then you get a fresh one and move on.

I hope it works/worked out with that person, life is a complicated thing.

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Jan 30, 2019

First off I want to say that I'm sorry. I hope that nothing I said was legitimately offensive because I was speaking in a sort of hypothetical sense. Talk to you right now(kind of anyway) I would be honest and say that most of the women I have dated have gone through some kind of trauma (particularly of the sexual nature). I can barely begin to explain the many things we have had to unpack to get to a space of trust and understanding. Considering how public this forum is I can't quite dive deep and say that I understand your circumstance but I will stay you are absolutely an incredibly strong person for surviving what you have been through. Your past experiences will not forever define you and no you are not always going to be a whore (not that I think you ever were).

If i've said anything that has hurt you, please ignore it and think of me as the typical douche bag but if anything I have said has helped please remember that you are greater than those experiences and you can have a life after it.

It takes a great amount of patience and durability to withstand the mental fight of coming to work everyday for a role that takes such a toll. You are practically sharing your heart and soul whenever you work. I think that says something about how strong you really are!

I'm not the kind of person that feels that their job defines them. A lot of people on this forum may disagree with me but I'm not going to be the guy that shoots up a building because I got fired or didn't get that promotion i deserved. I think you need to have peace with who you are as a person, i don't say this to be preachy i say this to myself everyday as well. I had a harsh break from my folks at one point in time because of finances. I didn't talk to them again for about 4/5 years. I had to rebuilt and salvage my relationship with them as well as my siblings (who were still living with them). Everybody has their own lot, it is absolutely not fair. Some people are short, some poor and some viciously abused. I can't say that what happened to you was fair, it wasn't. The choices you probably had to make, also not fair. The fact that you are still alive and decided to carry on is what matters. Pardon me for seeming corny, but thats some serious character, to not just yield and give up when the deck is stacked against you!

Stay encouraged, switch careers if you need to for peace of mind and I hope that things get better for you in life, your role/new role or whatever you decide.

Sincerely hoping that this was helpful to you or anyone else reading.

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Jan 30, 2019

If you're a man and you're not insecure about the damage in a prostitute, ex-prostitute, stripper, ex-stripper, or whatever, you're just a dumb dumb foolish moron. Jezebels have been the fall of all great men and will always be the greatest threat to the greatest men.

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Jan 30, 2019

Nah

Jan 30, 2019

Nope

Jan 30, 2019
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Jan 31, 2019
Jan 31, 2019
Feb 1, 2019

Dayman?

Feb 1, 2019

Fuckin my way thru nyc one chick at a time

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