Would you pursue a relationship/ marry this Tinder girl.
So a while back I met a girl in Netherlands on Tinder.
chrisrian arab political asylum applicants to Netherlands of Middle East origin
got laid off during covid. Now working in a warehouse . Huge step back as a blue collar emp from Deloitte I guess.
- very intelligent loyal in responding calling
2.beautiful face little chubby
slept with a few guys and with strong sexual appetite
claims to be a good Christian
does not seem focused on building a serious career
degree in accounting
When I confronted her about her casual sexual encounters she's like dude I'm 28 from Netherlands I fuck so what do you know how culture here is.
she and I get along well. Both are minorities in the west. I could connect on that basis.
when I confronted her about her asking for a dick pic she's like I'm not a thot.
she's not your typical tinder trash. She has no tattooes, dresses well and is extremely well spoken and knowledgeable about world politics and well travelled and very presentable to parents anywhere.
what troubles me is she asked me for a dick pic but claims her request and casual sexual encounters of the past are not proof of her being a thot or a hoe.
mind you this is not a scam or a tatooed
I've been speaking calling for a year
she's very well dressed and well spoken
I have her passport data
I've met her physically and she checks out
I like her but as a virgin and high income professional I see:
A. Zero career focus
B. Huge concern in her saying my sexual past is the past I will be faithful to you (can someone who asked for a dick pic be faithful)
C. She has three siblings. 2 parents. I doubt they saved anything in Netherlands as it's high income tax and they left the Middle East in a war period. THeir house is nice but they're of modest financial status given they have w Kia and the father had to support three kids.
d. She very nonchalantly blames me for talking about :
her asking for a dick pic not equating to trashy behavior
me being concerned she could have an extra marital affair
me claiming her interest in sexual topics alarms me.
bottom line is the person is good we get along well and we've been talking for a while now but I feel like she's a total hoe and skank and her saying yeah I'm 28 I fuck doesn't make her marriage material also her failing career is a blight. she went from Big Four to warehouse worker .