1. Search Results

  2. Im a 25yro Banker Who Still Dates "Goth Girls". Is there something wrong with me?

    Hi guys, long time poster here, and even longer time lurker (was gone for a bit of hiatus). For the record, this is NOT a troll post. If you think it is, please refrain from replying because I need a genuine opinion here. (Thanks). I'm posting under ...

    73 comments - 0 silver bananas - Apr 12 2019 - 3:05pm -

  3. Office Relationships: To Date or Not to Date

    What are your company's policies on dating co-workers? Does it still happen even if it's against company policy, and is it worth the risk to ask out the cute analyst? Asking for a friend. dating to Monday, August 27, 2018- 1:55pm ...

    23 comments - 3 silver bananas - Aug 27 2018 - 2:00pm -

  4. Where do you meet girls?

    For all those that are busy and dont have time to go out, where do you meet girls? I hardly ever time to go out and my logistics are also bad for going out so I have been cold approaching girls a lot during the day. I used to think the night club was the ...

    64 comments - 5 silver bananas - Feb 9 2017 - 2:53pm -

  5. Marrying another banker

    Moderator note (Andy): this is an oldie (2/19/08) but always an interesting topic to discuss. I'm a girl and a prospective monkey and was just curious, but what are the chances that you would you ever marry another banker? Also, what's your opin ...

    95 comments - 4 silver bananas - Apr 11 2017 - 7:58pm -

  6. Wow... being married sucks

    One of my frat bros who graduated college 2 years ago is married. He married his high school sweetheart last year, at age 23. I went to his wedding, the girl was pretty hot (she was a solid 8), he told me he was the happiest man on the planet at the momen ...

    426 comments - 7 silver bananas - Nov 8 2016 - 3:50pm -

  7. School is the best place to meet your future spouse

    Recently, there were several articles on where people meet their future spouses. There was the controversial op-ed from a Princeton alumna who urged the female undergrads at her alma mater to snag a husband while they're in school because their pool ...

    129 comments - 0 silver bananas - Mar 10 2017 - 5:52pm -

  8. Types of Girls You Will Go On A Failed Date With: Part I

    The days of college over. A college campus in Southern California was the best place to be in August/September. Blonde girls walked around with almost nothing on, with those oversize sunglasses, talking about which sorority they were going to join. Over t ...

    83 comments - 3 silver bananas - Aug 16 2014 - 5:00pm -

  9. She brings her friend along

    You make it clear you are interested in getting to know a girl more and you invite her lunch. She says she is busy that day and that whole week so we should reschedule. I invite her out to coffee and she accepts but she brings her friend along without tel ...

    65 comments - 0 silver bananas - Oct 18 2015 - 1:53pm -

  10. Are Asian men undesirable?

    Are they really at the bottom of the dating ladder, being seen as undateable? If so, why? Are they better off moving out of the country for relationship prospects? dating ...

    144 comments - 2 silver bananas - Aug 6 2014 - 1:02pm -

  11. Asking out a girl at the office

    I'm being serious in this post so please no BS or jokes. I see a beautiful girl at my office walking around all the time. Pretty confident that she's not on my floor because I always see her around lunch time only. Never spoken to her before, bu ...

    175 comments - 1 silver bananas - Jun 7 2014 - 11:38am -

  12. Dating Ugly Girls

    A few nights ago, I stumbled upon a blog where a guy claims that sleeping with ugly girls is a better option than focusing on the hottest ones. The site was http://www.animusempire.com/do-ugly-girls/. I suppose he has some great points. Getting sex from l ...

    47 comments - 0 silver bananas - Mar 23 2016 - 1:34am -

  13. waited six months for sex

    * dating ...

    66 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jan 8 2016 - 3:36pm -

  14. Friend has a huge crush on a married woman

    How can I talk sense into this guy? We're in the same class, and recently he met a married woman who is a first-year. She has only been out of college for a few years and got married last summer. He met her through a student club and has managed to s ...

    61 comments - 0 silver bananas - Feb 17 2015 - 9:21pm -

  15. bad idea to date promiscuous european nyc girl

    . dating ...

    68 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jan 8 2016 - 3:36pm -

  16. The hookp-up culture

    Pretty funny piece from The Atlantic on the rampant pervasiveness of the hookup culture at schools (obviously old news) and how it actually empowers women. Some interesting anecdotes as well. http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/0... sex datin ...

    132 comments - 0 silver bananas - Aug 29 2012 - 10:39pm -

  17. What I Learned From Both Getting Dream Job And Then Dumped In One Day

    Alright Monkeys, So I've been a long time user of this site and have wanted to give back for a while- so here goes. Today during my painfully boring Econometrics class I received a call from a BB 's HR telling me I had been officially extended a ...

    34 comments - 11 silver bananas - Nov 9 2014 - 5:00pm -

  18. What are your dating turn-ons and turn-offs?

    . dating ...

    54 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jun 16 2015 - 5:05pm -

  19. wall street oasis post

    dating advice dating ...

    38 comments - 0 silver bananas - May 13 2015 - 9:59pm -

  20. Dating a Bartender Chick

    WARNING: Somewhat NSFW if monitor easily seen by peers. So there's this bartender chick that I have an in with, long story short it's overtly indicative she want's String's D (actually verified, because we hooked up the first evening w ...

    67 comments - 1 silver bananas - Apr 30 2013 - 11:07am -

  21. DATING AT THE OFFICE?

    WSO, Most of us work hard and play hard. But dating takes a toll, as every ones knows, you gotta do the whole mating dance; the mind games, teasing, etc.. before you can close the deal. They say don't "shit where you eat" or "dip your ...

    87 comments - 0 silver bananas - Mar 19 2012 - 12:45pm -

  22. Dating the Economically Illiterate

    I've been dating this sociology major for a while now. Mostly, she's great, but sometimes she says some things that make me suspect she thinks all businessmen are like Tex Richman, the evil oil baron from the Muppet Movie. For my senior project, ...

    52 comments - 1 silver bananas - Sep 9 2013 - 7:17am -

  23. manual of flirtation

    ...... dating Fun ...

    35 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jan 8 2016 - 3:36pm -

  24. Best extracurricular activities (no pun intended) and (useful) majors for meeting hot females

    Help out a brah. college wall street dating B-School ...

    42 comments - 0 silver bananas - Apr 3 2014 - 5:25pm -

  25. The single most important choice you will ever have to really make is the person you marry.

    Mod Note: This comment comes from "Bankers and bad relationships" and quickly gatthered up 13 sb's. We thought it deserved to go on the homepage in case you missed it. ex cfo during the dot com period late nineties... The single most import ...

    27 comments - 6 silver bananas - May 8 2013 - 7:45pm -

  26. "Casually Dating"

    Someone please explain. What does "casually dating" mean to the average man? Be specific. dating ...

    127 comments - 0 silver bananas - Dec 2 2008 - 10:34am -

  27. Average looking very smart girl or very good looking average girl?

    My friends from (top) engineering undergrad/graduate school who are either in banking(quant research mostly) or engineering(facebook/google programmers) are extremely smart. All nice/kind girls, but they are not hot. Dress okay-ish, and never too hip. The ...

    39 comments - 0 silver bananas - Mar 30 2014 - 12:42am -

  28. Best b-schools for single straight men

    Yes, I know that b-schools in general are not great for guys due to the gender ratio and the fact that a lot of women come in already committed to serious relationships. However, from my own personal experience and talking to numerous buddies at the top p ...

    30 comments - 0 silver bananas - Mar 22 2015 - 1:04pm -

  29. Now it’s time to give your female monkey some dating advice as well. Reality does kill

    First, wallstreetoasis has been my all time favorite for quite a while, I especially enjoy reading the thoughtful dating tips you guys offered to your fellow frustrated male moneys. I rarely saw ladies seeking such advice here, but I don't mind to be ...

    45 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jul 18 2012 - 5:36pm -

  30. Hot informational Interviewee

    If you had an informational chat with a banker who was ridiculously gorgeous, would you test the waters and invite her for a drink or something? What could the potential pitfulls be? dating ...

    30 comments - 2 silver bananas - Jul 16 2014 - 4:34pm -

  31. Whom do female bankers/consultants date?

    Given their busy schedules, in your personal experience or experience of friends, who do they usually date and who do they usually end up with? Do they typically go for other bankers/consultants, marketing, sales, artsy types, doctors, lawyers, trades peo ...

    10 comments - 2 silver bananas - Nov 3 2018 - 10:38am -

  32. Are redhead ladies harder to get than mediocre women?

    "I like looking at the pretty girls, but I don't like to talk to them. They get me nervous. I get intimidated."-- Adam Sandler Edit: I did not intend this to be a joke thread. I was using a joke to poke fun at my insecurity around attractiv ...

    30 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jan 21 2014 - 5:08pm -

  33. Girl Advice

    So I haven't gone out much since coming to New York. The guys in my analyst class seem pretty serious about banking (most of them are practicing their Excel shortcuts or something), so I haven't really been able to get them to go out. Went out w ...

    43 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jul 11 2011 - 12:24am -

  34. Need bro advice- What she just said = red flag? "Future husband needs to be making more than me!"

    thanks for the advice bros. esp TNA, who actually answered my question. thanks a lot for taking the time to write out the well thought out post and you are totally right man. SB from me. dating ...

    29 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jan 28 2013 - 11:32pm -

  35. Good bars to take a date

    Where you do you monkeys like to take the ladies in NYC? dating Bars ...

    31 comments - 0 silver bananas - Apr 17 2012 - 8:53pm -

  36. Getting drinks with girls = you always have to pay?

    Or does it matter how you phrase it? Ex: "Lets get a drink together sometime." Does this imply you just want to get drinks and enjoy each other's company. Meaning, she pays for her drinks? vs. "Let me take you out for a drink sometime& ...

    24 comments - 0 silver bananas - Dec 15 2012 - 9:56pm -

  37. How to tactfully say no say to dating requests

    Advice please Edit: I realized elsewhere that this is a job for a first class wingman. If your under 30, attractive, bench at least 305, and work/play in the north LA area, please PM me. dating ...

    19 comments - 0 silver bananas - Mar 21 2014 - 6:40pm -

  38. Do men who are seriously follically challenged have a shot at ladies who are 8+?

    What do you think? dating bald ...

    19 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jan 21 2014 - 10:43am -

  39. International Dating (Turkey)

    So I met this Turkish girl who is super hot and super rich (pretty rich--family is probably worth $~25 MM) and really well educated (she's a secular, non-practicing Muslim). We're sort of dating now, but she's moving back to Istanbul at the ...

    14 comments - 0 silver bananas - Dec 10 2015 - 2:50pm -

  40. 10 signs youre seeing a chick

    i'm bored and high so i thought i'd throw this post up for fun, see disclaimer at the bottom about throwing monkey shit seeing a regular chick can be a great experience, especially if you're into the girl. if 3+ of the below have happened t ...

    16 comments - 3 silver bananas - Aug 13 2014 - 11:43am -

  41. This Woman Can Cook!

    How important is it to you monkeys if your wife/gf/whatever is a good cook? I'm dating this new girl and she is unbelievable, everything she whips up is good, she LOVES to do it, and when possible I can get her to cook in her bra/thong. It's bee ...

    19 comments - 1 silver bananas - May 31 2012 - 1:19pm -

  42. Tinder Date Ideas?

    Any monkeys got great ideas for tinder dates during the afternoon and night? My default go to has been drinks after work but I want to get some variety and enjoy more activities. I also want to minimize financial commitment. dating tinder ...

    14 comments - 0 silver bananas - Feb 22 2015 - 6:11pm -

  43. Tinder for Wall Street?

    Is there a tinder for Wall Street people/finance types? Because if not, I'm seeing a market opportunity here. I'm envisioning something along the lines of a cross between LinkedIn and Tinder- like, if I'm going to date someone, I would do s ...

    11 comments - 3 silver bananas - Dec 10 2016 - 11:49pm -

  44. Banker Girl Looking For Banker Guy

    http://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/w4m/2302120850.html Anyone want to give this girl a try and report on how it goes? gs Banking dating models gold diggers ...

    18 comments - 0 silver bananas - Apr 2 2011 - 11:36pm -

  45. Are those who work in finance more superficial than others in the dating world?

    Whether it be men or women, are they more likely to judge a potential partner on their attractiveness and height, even if they are not attractive themselves? ...

    15 comments - 0 silver bananas - Nov 10 2013 - 9:44am -

  46. Getting a Normal Woman in Wall Street, Quality of Women in Wall Street

    WANTED, a dating app for high-quality people, it's a balance between looks, money and taste. Lets start with this. 9 out of 10 people you see and meet are unsleepable. No matter how hard you try, you wouldn't be able to do it. I beg women not to ...

    12 comments - 0 silver bananas - Sep 8 2015 - 7:26pm -

  47. If you are seeing someone (dating but not exclusive...)

    Is it still wrong to sleep with other people? dating ...

    12 comments - 0 silver bananas - Mar 2 2015 - 2:13pm -

  48. Skirts in Finance: Why Does Bankerella Hate America?

    Those of you who follow our friends over at Wall Street Oasis may have recently seen a post by a 'female banker', who goes by Bankerella. She recently posted a blog about dating different finance guys, which has garnered some attention lately fo ...

    12 comments - 0 silver bananas - Aug 8 2012 - 3:46pm -

  49. How to meet smart attractive women?

    One of the major disadvantages of Chicago as opposed to NYC is that virtually all quality women who are 25+ are married, engaged, or in long-term relationships. Given that I'm 30 years old and would like to meet someone it's been quite frustrati ...

    14 comments - 0 silver bananas - Oct 5 2011 - 9:40am -

  50. Pursuing my ex-gf's friend

    -Broke up with my gf a month ago after 1.5 years together-We had a clean break-up (no drama, no bullshit)-Always had a thing for her friend who I find myself consistently creeping on Facebook and I have a huge feeling she wants me too What to do? Is it wor ...

    12 comments - 0 silver bananas - Feb 21 2012 - 2:07am -

  51. it's the new LSO

    http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/28/nyregion/28daba.... dating bankers ...

    13 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jan 28 2009 - 10:50am -

  52. Finance = Male Escort Material?

    Finance guys have it good in the dating world due to the money and prestige associated with the job. Male escort business is a totally different world though. Women aren't looking for a walking wallet but rather for someone interesting/fun/exciting. ...

    9 comments - 0 silver bananas - May 28 2012 - 5:45am -

  53. 25 Things You Should Know About Dating A Wall Streeter

    We always hear about these Wall Street dating horror stories. There's the rude email cover letter from an investment manager begging for a second date, the alleged  stalking bank analyst  and the finance guy's spreadsheet comparing his online da ...

    8 comments - 1 silver bananas - Oct 22 2012 - 4:10pm -

  54. Dating An Analyst...Yes, one of those threads.

    Hi all- I'm new here. Stumbled upon this site and I'm here for some advice (as a girl...though this might be a bad idea lol) I guess my question is for all those bankers out here, am I supposed to continue making the effort or from your perspect ...

    6 comments - 1 silver bananas - Feb 8 2018 - 10:00pm -

  55. What would you think of an attractive woman with braces?

    So I had braces when I was a Freshman in high school until my junior year but I later lost my retainer on a vacation and my teeth have since shifted. I am now, at the ripe age of 25, considering getting them again. I am an otherwise very attractive woman ...

    7 comments - 2 silver bananas - Nov 28 2016 - 5:27pm -

  56. Dating Questions

    G-d damn I miss the dating scene in NYC. So many people... such an open culture. I currently work in Switzerland (doing commodities). Anyhow... a few questions primarily for the single ones out there: 1) How would you break out the way you meet women? (i. ...

    9 comments - 0 silver bananas - Aug 19 2012 - 6:32am -

  57. Want the $$$ by Dating a Wall Street Man

    I am sure that there are tons of ladies out there that want to date a person working in Wall Street. Most likely, the superstar bankers who are making the big bucks. Well in order to do that as Bess Levine writes you need to be from an industry besides Wa ...

    9 comments - 0 silver bananas - Feb 9 2012 - 6:18pm -

  58. How many of your coworkers are single?

    I don't know if it's me, but it seems like there hasn't been a remotely interesting thread on the consulting forum in a while. It's just people asking us to handicap their chances at random firms, oddly specific questions about pay, an ...

    9 comments - 0 silver bananas - Sep 27 2011 - 8:07pm -

  59. Model Template

    Hey Monkeys, I was hoping someone could send me a template they use to keep track of the models they've been taking out on dates? I know people sometimes post DCF and lbo models, so I figured this would be a good place to ask. I stumbled across a cop ...

    8 comments - 1 silver bananas - Apr 18 2013 - 2:08pm -

  60. recession--> cohabitation

    I was having this conversation with a friend. He's been with his GF for just a few months and is lamenting that they haven't been together longer so they can live together. That way they'd save a ton of money etc. My BF of a few months has ...

    6 comments - 0 silver bananas - Oct 16 2008 - 2:27pm -

  61. Do employers creep on dating site profiles?

    Do employers creep on dating site profiles? jobs dating web fb ...

    5 comments - 0 silver bananas - Feb 11 2014 - 8:27pm -

  62. Redpill aware on women

    Video link https://youtu.be/8j3wdkjEjd4 All right, I don't think there are many redpilled gents out here, but it doesn't hurt to try. dating ...

    3 comments - 2 silver bananas - Apr 25 2018 - 2:11am -

  63. Are you smiling in your FB and dating profile picture?

    Are you smiling in your FB and dating profile picture? dating Internet fb ...

    3 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jan 28 2014 - 10:14pm -

  64. Best site for fashion/dating advice

    I usually read askmen.com or Penthouse. dating fashion ...

    3 comments - 0 silver bananas - Oct 11 2013 - 11:29am -

  65. Dating- not the usual question

    I worked really hard in college for the last 4 years and will soon start at a great company that is not located in a major city (think of a city like Sacramento but not Sacramento). I have 0 friends in the city I'm moving to and will be working with ...

    2 comments - 0 silver bananas - Jul 16 2016 - 11:06am -

  66. Ever Been Cheated On? Cheated On Your Significant Other?

    Hello WSO Readers, Just like the title says, anyone care to share their details on how they dealt being cheated on or how you found out? Also some feedback on how you guys deal with work and maintaining a relationship? When a typical guy is pulling 50-60 ...

    1 comment - 1 silver bananas - Oct 18 2018 - 2:19pm -

  67. Pure Comedic Gold

    This just can't be any better. It's long but it's exactly what you think a satirical look at Wall Street dating would be. nyc dating bankers ...

    - 1 silver bananas - Apr 16 2014 - 4:46pm -