4 Reasons Why We Lie and Cheat

Let’s call it stretching the truth. We all do it every once in a while. People like to vilify bankers, but lying in small doses is part of the job description for many politicians, doctors and car salesmen. Dan Ariely from the WSJ recently affirmed this idea by taking a close look at why people cheat.

In short, very few people steal to a maximal degree, but many good people cheat just a little here and there. We fib to round up our billable hours, claim higher losses on our insurance claims, recommend unnecessary treatments and so on.

What’s the biggest lie you’ve told to get ahead? Do you think money is the greatest motivator to stretch the truth? Here are some situations in which Ariely says we are more likely to lie or cheat:

To test his theory, Ariely created a set of experiments using a “matrix test” where test subjects were given 5 minutes to solve the test and were told to count their correct answers on their own and then put their worksheets through a paper shredder at the back of the room. Interestingly, monetary incentives didn’t lead to more cheating, but there were a few factors that did.

  1. We will cheat if we see others cheating around us. This is the case in politics. When one candidate stretches the truth about his opponent to make him look bad, it’s not surprising to see the opponent strike back in a similar manner.
  2. Being reminded of the moral code reduces one’s propensity to cheat. Test subjects who were asked to read the 10 Commandments just before taking the matrix test were less likely to stretch the truth. This happened consistently, even for a group of self-declared atheists.
  3. We will cheat if we think our “teammates” will benefit. “If my teammates benefit from my fudging the numbers, surely that makes me a virtuous person!”
  4. We are more likely to lie on an application, insurance or tax form if we put our signature at the bottom of the form. Ariely found that having people put their signature at the top of the forms (before they filled in false information) rather than at the bottom (after the lying was done) was more likely to deter lying.

Most of the test subjects were young Americans, and perhaps the study would have been a little more predictive if it were cross-generational and cross-cultural. Maybe an older person, who grew up with rules of conduct, is less likely to lie than today’s typical college student. Still, the study raises an interesting question: Do you agree with these conclusions about what factors lead people to lie and cheat in the real world?

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Well, I cant think of any lies Ive told to get ahead (maybe some minor things like "oh yeah, the report is almost done, just doing some touch ups, itll be over to you asap" when it wasnt started. I will tell this though. Back in either 9th or 10th grade, I was up one Thurs. night ~10:30. Had a project due for the next day that I hadn't done. Figured I could stay home over the weekend (3 day weekend, hell yeaah I went to see my mother and told her I had a stomach ache (which I didn't). This had worked in the past, and I planned on just telling her in the morning I didn't want to go to school because I had the flu or some shit.

So for some CRAZY assed reason, she tells my father and they decide I need to go to the ER. I am kinda going "no actually, its not that bad" the whole time. We get to the ER and I figure nothing bad is gonna happen. Theyll see nothing is wrong and give me some tums or something, and I can get home and work on my project tomorrow and enjoy my three day weekend.

They put me in a waiting room and sit me on a bed. Its ~1130 now. I tell my dad that whatever they do, I dont want them to put a needle in my arm. Dont let them put a needle in me. Around 130 or so, they put a needle in my arm. They say they wanna do a diagnostic test to see if they can figure out whats wrong with me.

Whatever. Im tired and a bit peeved but I cant go back now. Theyll see nothing is wrong with me, sleep friday off, work through saturday and have 2 days plus a bit of Friday evening to enjoy of my three day weekend. Still pretty good. They have me drink this chalky crap (about 2 liters) and do an mri or cat scan or something in the morning.

They tell my parents (and not me) that I have very early stage appendicidis. I am not informed and at some point they put me under and take out my appendix, not having slept the entire night.

When I was too weak to go in to school Tuesday and had to do my project then, my mom was pissed at me. My three day weekend was gone.

For this reason, for taking my organ and for my KNOWING that the symptoms did not exist and that they lied about it, I have a lot of anger for doctors. Good thing the 11k bill for the operation was covered by insurance.

“...all truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.” - Schopenhauer
 

Don't lie, don't cheat, it's not worth it. If you HAVE TO, then, ok, do what you have to do. The biggest lies I told were when I was looking for my first internship...I had absolutely no idea what the job was, but got into the interviewer's head and told them what they wanted to hear. Sad part is that if they'd trained me better and given a shit, I'd have stayed with them...but they regarded me as disposable and were just using me up, so I stopped giving a shit and leveraged my position into the job I have now. That bridge is burnt, but fuck 'em. And I told the truth coming in here.

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