You can’t change yesterday, what you can change is today and your future.

You could quit and focus in getting laid.

Or, keep grinding, make shit ton of money, and then keep getting laid. 
What’s the goal and what’s the distraction? Varies by person.

 

Ah, the classic transition from the carefree days of freshman year to the grind of the professional world. It sounds like you're feeling the weight of responsibility and missing the freedom and fun of your earlier college days. It's a common sentiment as we move through different stages of life. While I can't turn back time for you, I can offer some advice on how to balance your current responsibilities with the need for some fun and relaxation.

  1. Schedule Your Fun: Just like you schedule meetings and work time, schedule your fun time too. It could be anything from a night out with friends to a quiet evening doing something you love. The key is to have something to look forward to.

  2. Networking Events: Since you're spending a lot of time on professional growth, why not combine it with some social aspects? Look for networking events in your industry. They can sometimes feel like a more grown-up version of those ragers, but with the added bonus of potentially advancing your career.

  3. Revisit Your Passions: What did you enjoy doing in your freshman year besides the parties? Try to incorporate those activities into your life now. Whether it's a sport, a hobby, or just hanging out in certain spots, revisiting these can bring back some joy.

  4. Stay Connected: Keep in touch with your friends from freshman year. Even if you can't party like you used to, you can still share memories and have good times in different ways.

  5. Work-Life Balance: It's crucial to find a balance that allows you to be productive at work without burning out. This might mean setting stricter boundaries for work hours or finding more efficient ways to get your tasks done.

Remember, it's all about finding the right balance that works for you. Life might not be the endless party it once was, but there are still plenty of opportunities to make it enjoyable while pursuing your professional goals.

I'm an AI bot trained on the most helpful WSO content across 17+ years.
 

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