Luckiest break you've ever gotten?

As the title states, biggest or luckiest break you've ever gotten that could have otherwise never allowed you to materialize your own talent/potential. An inflection point, someone influential, or a 1 in a million thing that happened to you.

 

Getting that call from the PM I'd been in touch with for 4yrs stating that a spot opened up at the firm he worked at and he got me an interview slot. Had always been interested in equity investing, but this foot in the door at a top firm completely changed the game.

Now I know even if I exit the industry at some point, I've got the knowledge I need to lap the market in my PA, and that peace of mind is invaluable as I scale my net worth. Not to mention of course how interesting the job is and how it's let me meet a ton of incredible human beings and get a sense of how they think. Owe it all to him

 
NonTargetScum:
Analyst 1 in PE - LBOs:
...to be fair I probably would have been able to get a good job anyway.

What do you mean by this?

Given these two,

a) Probably being able to get a good job anyway

b) An actual offer

it is pretty clear that this is the former.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

I got my first job in IB from a resume drop - that I have no recollection of doing. I made it all the way through the first round phone interview without knowing what job I was interviewing for. Looked up the firm, and never recalled being on their website, much less applying for a job. To this day, I have no idea how they received my resume, and I'm now in my 11th year in IB.

 
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Being born in the US of A baby!!!! In a more philosophical way, the mere fact that we are intelligent, sentient beings is truly incredible. If we consider that we are just a bunch of molecules put together in a specific way so that we can think, feel, and evolve, it is so much luckier than being rock floating through space.

 
LetItBegan:
Being born in the US of A baby!!!! In a more philosophical way, the mere fact that we are intelligent, sentient beings is truly incredible. If we consider that we are just a bunch of molecules put together in a specific way so that we can think, feel, and evolve, it is so much luckier than being rock floating through space.

Amen brother!

 

I cold emailed a billionaire hedge fund manager my stock pitch (I wasn't aware at the time - only that he was a top performer in the biotech realm) and ended up chatting on the phone with him for about an hour... that conversation opened a lot of doors for me. He also connected me with one of his team members to help me work through the model I was creating for my pitch.

If you are curious the Company is $SGMO. It had quite a run in 2017 when I pitched it, and has since fizzled out.

 

When I got caught cheating the final month of senior year during high school... Dean of Students had the option to: have me fail that class, kick me out of school, not walk at graduation, and threaten to tell my future undergrad that I had just got caught cheating, potentially rescinding my acceptance.

Needless to say, the Dean was a huge bro and supporter of mine throughout high school. He "mysteriously' lost the plagiarized essay and therefore couldn't kick off an investigation into the cheating. Granted this was 7 years ago, but still.

Who knows what would have happened if he didn't "lose" arguably the most plagiarized, laziest essay ever submitted to a professor...

 

feel like if you were going to a decent / good school it works out for the school that you be able to go as well. HS can be lenient for seniors and it works out for everybody in my opinion. There pressure to perform well to get into college, but once that milestone is hit, there are so few people who learn to learn or enjoy school. same with IB jobs, once people signed their SA I remember people going drinking on weekdays and skipping class all the time. Not everyone of course but the environment changes so much.

 

I have a pretty good one I think.

For background, I graduated from a non target this past spring. Before my last semester I was in an accident and required surgery on my arm. The recovery was brutal and I missed an extended period of time to begin. Even once I returned to school, I had to attend physical therapy multiple times a week. I had to make arrangements with all my professors in order to get caught up for time missed as well as accommodations given my situation/recovery.

This semester I was able to get fairly close with all my professors obviously, however I got particularly close to one professor who further sympathized with my situation: my fixed income professor which was a finance elective. I attended office hours frequently and attended all of his classes. We developed a great relationship which was unusual for me through all 4 years of school for any course professor.

Fast forward to the summer. I am applying for jobs and opportunity at a fund opens up for me through a friend of a friend. I pass the phone interview, pass the next in person interview, and make it to the final round. Here I meet with the group head. He asks me about my college and the courses I took. Next he told me he knew a professor at my school that was a great family friend and mentor of his. He asked if I knew him and told me his name: same professor I mentioned above. He even tried calling him during the interview.

They connected and had a conversation about me sometime during the selection process. I wound up getting the job. I usually don't believe in luck, but in my case I think the stars definitely aligned a bit.

 

I feel that. Every car I’ve owned except my current one has been totaled. A week before HS graduation I crashed really badly, that was probably the closest I’ve been. I think a few changes in physics (a couple degrees different from impact, a few mph faster, maybe even a slight shift in wind) and I’d be gone.

“The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary.” - Nassim Taleb
 

How has this helped you? I’m trying to understand it better. I feel like I genuinely try to give organized religion a shot but never feel accepted or like I understand it. I’m just curious.

“The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary.” - Nassim Taleb
 

To say that it helped me is an understatement. It changed me completely. My goals, how I spend my time, what I think about, my demeanor, personal relationships, etc. It all completely changed, and for the better. If there's anything more specific you'd like to discuss or ask, please feel free to shoot me a PM.

“Elections are a futures market for stolen property”
 

Being born to educated middle class parents, being of above average height, in good health (never had a headache, don't need glasses, never get ill) and without a disposition to pack on fat but can add muscle easily,

All these things alone, while perhaps not huge advantages or particularly noteworthy on their own, have made life a bit easier for me.

And being male, so glad I don't have to deal with being pregnant.

 

I envy your lack of headaches. I get them and migraines quite often.

“The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary.” - Nassim Taleb
 

My phone screen interviewer said they were good friends / grad of the same school with the person who forwarded my resume to HR - (I didn’t go to their school). Followed by one of the MDs at my super day saying they were a “mentor” type figure to said phone screen interviewer. This was at a bulge bracket. Also another one of the MDs at my super day saw a firm I interned at and jokingly said he didn’t get an offer there after a final round interview during his undergrad.

I think I interviewed well regardless but I’m sure these weird things helped

 

I constantly develop symptoms of the imposter syndrome but having supportive alumni at the VP/ MD level is a huge break. Being able to schedule coffee chats with successful people that have a family and who made more in 1 year than my family ever has is truly inspirational and appreciative.

 

Went through a very bad, dark streak while in college. Got fairly deep into dependent drug use, depression from the death of a friend I felt responsible for, felt my mind slipping, had been expelled from school and then got back in...I don't want to say I was ever suicidal, but the thought did enter my mind at certain points. So, the biggest break for me was being able to snap out of the spiral and work myself into a reasonably successful career to-date. It could've just as easily done a different way, I think.

 

Sourced my first deal in my 1st year ever working. I just happened to know a guy in a MM firm whose client is looking for an buyout. I asked if he was looking for an investor and said yes. I discussed it with my MD and negotiated the deal structure almost all by myself (with the guidance of my MD and VP). Closed the deal back in December and that company is now preparing for a major investment for exporting their products to China and India.

It really opened up some doors and really boosted my confidence overall. Over that one deal i get 4 HH emails and 2 interview calls from a local MM PE shop (mostly from competing bidders). I might've not get any carry nor significant bonus over it but i think it really helped my career overall.

 

Imo, luckiest break I've ever gotten was my failed baseball career. Thought I was a lot better than I really was and after a few years of college ball and 2 grueling leg surgeries/rehabs, I went back and got an actg degree (having no idea of what that really entails). Had some awesome professors that steered me in the right direction and ended up landing an advisory gig with the big 4. Had I never gotten hurt, I'd be on some bus somewhere hooking up with randos in the midwest. Thank God I shattered my leg.

 

I got arrested freshman year of high school for breaking and entering into a neighborhood home. Could have ended up doing time, but got lucky that the homeowners declined to press charges. It was a real wake up call on re-evaluating the company I kept — afterwards I started taking school more seriously and got into a semi-target while my co-conspirator (who I never saw again) was recently arrested for selling coke out of the Domino’s Pizza where he works

 

one of the sales teams at my first company decided to take a chance on an associate who spent five years in legal and compliance supporting their team, so it's either that or passing CFA level 3 by the skin of my teeth. either way I'm a lucky MFer

Joshua Friedman, CFA @yoshfriedman
 

Still waiting for a big, career-making break, but the biggest to-date was when I got a response to a cold email to an FLDP manager when I was in college.

I was at a very small school. Any alumni with business related jobs were in insurance sales or some shit. I was so naïve about recruiting timelines, and I just happened to email right when they were kicking off recruiting. I happened to find someone's email address, and I sent a cold email off into the abyss..

 

I had a great mentor at my first job out of ug. He was mid-40s, divorced, kids all grown up, loved to party but was also super intelligent. He eventually left for a better role with an institutional investor but we kept in touch through happy hours and lunches. 5 years into his new role he decides he wants to move to Florida for better weather. A couple of days before he leaves he hands his boss my resume and says i'm the guy they should hire to replace him. One month later I started the interview process and had an offer soon after. This is the type of shop that typically recruits MBAs so my chances of getting in the door would have been slim without his recommendation. The new role totally changed my career trajectory for the better. I've been to Florida to visit him several times, mostly to go fishing on his 60 footer.

 

I honestly think my lucky breaks are the jobs I did not get. Right out of school I was working a job that I was very ready to leave after one year and I had a couple of things in mind that I was trying to move to. I had at least 3 interviews for jobs that I would have taken had a I got them that would have been way worse than my current situation. One of which was at my current firm, I actually know the guy who got the role and I am now way ahead of him. We always joke that he is the best thing that ever happened to me.

 

Getting my first job as a commodity trader, switching careers after a few years in engineering.

Non target school from a non target country with a non target GPA., so it took a few years of really hard work to get there.

The luckiest bit about it? I almost didn't apply for the role because it was advertised 1 week before the CFA exam. Needless to say, it changed my life. Skipped the whole mid/back office route and the mediocre trading analyst positions (you know the ones that people take in hope of getting a seat in a few years), and went straight into a junior trader position. Currently moving into a seat at a top global player, starting in a couple months.

Luck = prep + opportunity, so keep at it boys because things turn around just before you're about to give up in despair.

 

Electrical Engineering. Learned the market structure and leveraged my knowledge of physical flows and my CFA exam to get a spot on a power trading desk.

 
  1. being born in the USA
  2. having a father figure in my formative years
  3. charges leading to jailtime being dropped from my record

beyond the above, I think being born into my family was the luckiest break. they're not correct about everything, but they taught me early the value of education (when your family members are poor black and poor white when they were young, education is the only thing that can lift you up) so I was very curious but also academically challenged. I think I would've ended up like a lot of the crowd I grew up near (drugs, dead end jobs, crime, dropout) had I not had instilled in me the desire to learn early on.

sure I've worked harder than some, but if my dad had left earlier and I had shit parenting, I'd probably be slinging dope rather than financial advice.

 

Worked at a retail store and developed a surface level relationship with one of the regulars. Landed an internship at one of the most recognizable brands on the planet (which I don't remember applying to), where I bumbed into said customer. Turns out they ran M&A - had some conversations with them and got some career advice. Set my sights on IB later on - fast forward to my superday at my current BB, the MD that interviews me give's me the "how'd you get interested in IB" question and I mention the old customer that I met at my retail job. Turns out that's their client. Needless to say, I got the offer.

 

There was a panel discussion at my school that brought a F100 CEO and some other very influential people to campus. I asked him (F100 CEO) a question about M&A during the Q&A and that night I received a message asking if I wanted an interview. Also, on the same day, we had a lunch with the CEO of a large asset manager and it turned into essentially a two hour 1 on 1 discussion and we've kept in touch. Got the job after the interview, and the connections that have come from it have been fantastic considering that I attend a school that barely anyone has heard of.

 

Definitely my current role. I went from a very narrow objective based role into one where we are given as free reign as you can imagine.

The intention was that, too. It's hard to understand the difference of what more you can offer until it's fully in front of you and you keep climbing. I'm in that role 1 year later and it's incredible. I hope for good luck by EOM, and I think I created something that very well will absolutely shock the industry. I'm confident I have now, but this will be the 3/3 home run. Two thirds there, and even if it's stopped now it's remarkable.

I do remember a lot of people doubting me. Giving me a hard time, saying I lack credibility. A lot of it gave me the encouragement to keep going actually. I hope bonus next month is good, and I hope my deal flow into next month as previously mentioned carries that momentum.

I can't say I expected my luck to turn out this way. But not a soul can say I didn't try hard or always make myself available. I hope others can go through this experience.

Life is hard. Lots of personal stuff can create a wave of emotions. Professional development, in today's world, is super competitive. All I can tell folks is literally never give up and keep going at it.

 

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