Female invites male to watch strippers, appropriate or not?
Hi guys,
Given the demographics here is dominated by male, I'd like to ask this question: how would you judge a girl if she invites you to watch strippers in town? Whether the boys have girl friends are unknown, but they are definitely not married. The girl met the boys during a traveling trip. I'd say their relationship is close to acquaintance, or marginally friends.
What's your take on this? Would you deem the girl as open, offensive, or lesbian?
id see her as fucking awesome
LOL
Some girls like strip clubs, for whatever reason. I'd personally be more impressed if she took me hunting/camping/fishing, but that's me.
I don't see the issue. I have done this; I have known other women who have done this. Strip clubs are entertaining environments. Lots of people like them. As long as it's not a work thing, who the f cares?
Better question: where do you live that you have to go to watch strippers "in town"? Fucking Iowa?
If a girl is leading the charge it would seem a little odd to me, I don't understand how it could be entertaining for a girl
Right, because all girls are 100% straight, heterosexual all the time, all the way. Thanks for the reminder.
Ah, I see. So I take it you bat for both teams?
....Did you go to college in the US? I don't know a girl that hasn't at least made out with a girl, what do you think goes on at these girls nights and hang outs.
1: Look at all the guys drawing the line between "would date" and "wouldn't date" without being asked. Who ever said the chicks we're discussing were even available? I guarantee you, I had already friendzoned or workzoned all the guys I ever asked to strip clubs (unless we were already in a relationship). Going to clubs together helps make that zone more comfortable for those few who are still lusting.
2: To the above point about girl parties. Eh... partially true. IMO, girls don't get together in big groups to play those sorts of games, at least not post-adolescence. If two girls at a hen night were off in the corner going at it, it would be weird. But it is true that girls are way more relaxed about these things than dudes. Look at GoingConcern -- got his undies in a twist trying to figure out which bucket to stick me in. (The most disappointing male response to the news that a hot girl likes girls is, "What does that mean for me and my dick? Is she pokable? Not pokable? Do I even want to poke her anymore? Should I just diss her and go wank off? I can't figure it out!)
3: Point is, many, many women enjoy the sight of boobies. Let's just talk about boobies for now, not the rest of the package. Boobies have universal appeal. They improve every scene. A whole lot of chicks like to look at them. This includes women who may not admit it, even to themselves... and it includes women who know it and own it and aren't ashamed. I privately theorize that less than half of women are 100% hetero (i.e., a zero on the Kinsey scale), going from personal data.
So assuming that you accept that there are women out there who aren't wearing men's shirts and comfortable shoes who might like boobies, how might they choose to enjoy those boobies? Yes, you could creep around in locker rooms, but that's really creepy and other women can tell that you are creeping. No fun there. Strip clubs, however, are safe, especially for those who aren't looking to get a full-on lesbian girlfriend. (We're talking about boobs only here because there is a line between boobs and muff-diving that is a little more challenging to cross, esp. for beginners.)
Strip clubs are safe because nobody gets their feelings hurt and it's practically zero-risk. The women at strip clubs are usually happy to dance for women rather than men, because female clients are less creepy and help them make more money from guys all night long. Plus, you control what happens and when. And there is less chance of a girl going psycho on you.
I actually have had some sketchy things happen in strip clubs, plus as I get older I've come up with some better ways to spend my money, so I don't go much anymore. But I would argue that they are a legit way for a girl (whether 99% straight, a little straight, half-straight, whatever) to scratch that itch.
You make me hot in pants.
Love, Umar Farouk Abdulmuttalab
I see what you did there. +1
And in response to Bankerella's statement of boobies and their universal appeal... Confession: I'm totally not a fan of tits. I think they're fuckin' weird looking. They're not like revolting but I don't get any enjoyment out of seeing them, but I'll deal with 'em when the situation calls for it. Personally I prefer my own, they make more sense to me, plus I can make 'em move on their own - a skill I'm particularly proud of.
fwiw, huge fan of bringing girls to the stripclub. If anything, it might be a little strange that you're the one taking the initiative as opposed to just being down to go though, lol.
There are two ways I have done this.
1: Gentle: mass email saying "I'm headed over, join if you want". 2: Aggressive: Get there early, get 50 singles, stack on table, take pic, mass email: "I'm stuck here trying to spend all this shit myself; who wants to help?" The place is usually packed within 15 minutes.
No one has ever told me this is strange. At least, not to my face.
I would definitely try #1 first! Thanks for your insights!:D
Appropriate? Sure. Would I think of you as dating material? Probably not. [quote=bankerella]2: Aggressive: Get there early, get 50 singles, stack on table, take pic, mass email: "I'm stuck here trying to spend all this shit myself; who wants to help?" The place is usually packed within 15 minutes./quote] ^^Not gunna lie, that would sell me like Billy Mays on his best bender.
thinking about why a girl wants to go to a strip club instead of just going = what
B why did you quote yourself?
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