Ex GF is setting me up with her friends.

My ex girl (the same one) recently got back into town and is offering to set me up with her friends. I accepted because I recently broke up with another girl and could do with a fling or two.

Having seen a few different girls (she has tons of hot friends), i hooked up with two of them. Both slutty and nothing special in the sack but pretty to look at but not so good to listen to. One of her friends is great, very pretty, great personality and easy to talk to for ages. The other night we spent all night on the phone talking.

However, in discussing with my ex-girl, she says she is saving herself for marriage and will only get serious if she sees me as marriage material. I dont want to settle down yet but I really like this girl. What can I do?

 

if she said that she'll only get serious if she sees you as marriage material it means that you gotta go get your dick wet in another sugarwalls until you do want to settle down.(if of course she's still single and still want you when you do) simple as that ;)

 
idrankmalk:
short of using roofies

See that OP? Do what you gotta do.

dagastarr:
if she said that she'll only get serious if she sees you as marriage material it means that you gotta go get your dick wet in another sugarwalls until you do want to settle down.(if of course she's still single and still want you when you do) simple as that ;)

This is a slightly more legit way of doing it.

in it 2 win it
 

Go out with her, get married and have kids all the while cheating on her in the city with lots of dirty little sissies.

I am going to call my kids Ctrl, Alt and Delete. That way if something is going wrong I can beat them all at once.
 

I met a girl like this a few years ago. I decided to be persistent and play the "just the tip" game as mentioned above. I'm married now, joke is on me. I didn't marry her for the pussy, that would be ridiculous. I was persistent enough to get it before marriage. She just turned out to be the only woman I've ever met worth marrying. Now I have the biggest dick she's ever had and she is a tight nympho. I'm happily married and I never saw it coming. GLWS.

 
Xecit:
I met a girl like this a few years ago. I decided to be persistent and play the "just the tip" game as mentioned above. I'm married now, joke is on me. I didn't marry her for the pussy, that would be ridiculous. I was persistent enough to get it before marriage. She just turned out to be the only woman I've ever met worth marrying. Now I have the biggest dick she's ever had and she is a tight nympho. I'm happily married and I never saw it coming. GLWS.

Tell her you just want to soak...

 
Xecit:
I met a girl like this a few years ago. I decided to be persistent and play the "just the tip" game as mentioned above. I'm married now, joke is on me. I didn't marry her for the pussy, that would be ridiculous. I was persistent enough to get it before marriage. She just turned out to be the only woman I've ever met worth marrying. Now I have the biggest dick she's ever had and she is a tight nympho. I'm happily married and I never saw it coming. GLWS.
This made me actually lol.
 
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Xecit:
I met a girl like this a few years ago. I decided to be persistent and play the "just the tip" game as mentioned above. I'm married now, joke is on me. I didn't marry her for the pussy, that would be ridiculous. I was persistent enough to get it before marriage. She just turned out to be the only woman I've ever met worth marrying. Now I have the biggest dick she's ever had and she is a tight nympho. I'm happily married and I never saw it coming. GLWS.

That's great for you. It seems like this would be a great strategy for a guy with a small d!ck. How many guys heard that she was a virgin and were also happy that they were the biggest? I guess it's a good thing that most guys aren't persistent about getting laid like you are!!!

 
RatinaMaze:
You guys are all tools. Not one worthy comment. I suppose I could try to change her mind but I dont want the burden of banging her and then her expecting we're getting married.

what kind of answer did you expect? there's no magical solution to this. you either settle down now or move on to another girl.

 

Ratina,

If sex is such a vital part to a relationship to the point where it's a non-starter, then it is you who is the tool. Neither of you will be attractive when you're 60, so a long lasting relationship is built on those more fundamental elements in a relationship.

If all you want to do is bang, then clearly don't go out with her. If all you want to do is bang her and have a semi-long relationship, you're taking away a strong moral point she values (and you clearly have to value it a lot to hold out this long), and that's just terrible.

It's fine to NOT want to grow up at your age, but find girls that fit your goals better. And when you're ready to adjust your goals, then maybe you can look at her. Or hey, maybe she's worth changing your goals for.

Just my .02

 

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