Long or Short Mail Order Brides?
I am completely disillusioned with the dating scene here in the states- I think a majority of the girls have a perverted sense of entitlement, and the ones that are actually good looking can basically get away with murder. I also believe I have perhaps discovered an economic rationale for my observations…
I think that women have a much higher opportunity cost because they are laden with so many dating options. The value that women see in their partner must therefore be less than the value that men see in their partner. Imagine a typical couple in any social setting. Now imagine them separating and seeking a date in this setting. It is a certifiable fact that the girl will have a much better chance of getting a date than her partner. I can honestly say that all of my ex-girlfriends would be much more successful finding a date than I would. They were always getting hit on while we were dating, and sometimes guys had the audacity to do it blatantly right in front of me. As an aside I am a decent looking guy, but I am in very good shape. I was usually taken aback when guys much smaller than me would hit on my girlfriend. This is only further evidence of how unevenly balanced the social construction of dating has become.
I understand that Mail Order Bride is a pejorative term so I was hesitant to use it in the title, but any other euphemism would just not fit or receive a suitable number of comments. I am legitimately considering a “tour” to Eastern Europe- Russia and the former satellites- to look for a respectable girl. Does anyone have any firsthand knowledge or know a relative or friend that has actually tried this? Perhaps it is only an anachronism, but is it possible for a girl to be pretty, domestically inclined, intelligent, and actually “cool” without being a bitch or having lived a life of complete debauchery from 20-25? Are you long or short Mail Order Brides?





I'm long once the spread
I'm long once the spread tightens.
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first, you are basically
first, you are basically paraphrasing theorems of game with regards to women's dating market value
second, you should not deal with EE broads under any circumstances unless you have the mind and hand of a pimp and have thoroughly mastered using American women as a door mat...chicks from over there are slicker, smarter and born to hustle...thinking that they will act the same way once you've married them/brought them over as they do in the getting your chump ass hooked period, is a surefire recipe to disaster
third, if you want to go the mail order route...go Islamic or Asian, the only chance you have of not getting seriously fucked over long term is by going with a girl from a Patriarchal upbringing who has never been outside of her family's sight and is afraid to stand on her own
remember, any "pay for play" relationship with a woman implies that your ass will pay...thinking a mail order bride will act how you expect her to is a serious mistake...like it or not, this is a slave/master relationship and you better have the stones and the lack of conscience to be cruel and domineering.
in general, i'm long MOBs...but only for those who accept what i've written above to be fact and are ready for a lifetime of control games the likes of which can often bring a very negative ROI.
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Does it have to be
Does it have to be Russian/Eastern Europe for you?
I may be stereotyping here but aren't those the girls that are typically looking at Americans as their ticket out?
OP you say that there is no
OP you say that there is no women in USA, you would date? And that you have to go another country to find a girl. That is extremism , agree that many girls in USA does not have a good head on her shoulder but many do.
Try to find a good girl in your home town, I am sure there would many good girls around.
Have you considered taking
Have you considered taking classes at a local university? Maybe graduate level classes in whatever youre interested in? Its my impression that a lot of girls from other countries come here and get masters degrees to compete in the market. One girl I know for instance is doing that, is from a Russian satellite and would be a great catch. Dresses really nice, very feminine compared to the manly, brutish American women, very family oriented. She tells me shed even be ready to settle down now and have a family, and shes only 23.
I think its more risky to go over there than to find the ones that are already here who are trying to achieve something for themselves. Also, the family oriented females are also common in the asian cultures, but there are many sleezey asians, so beware.
If youre really looking for family orientation though, I would sincerely suggest the mormons. Find a good mormon girl. They are just about the best people I have ever known, they dont have poor family who will leach off of you/be a moral drag on your kids, and they are just so nice it makes us all look like asses.
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- Schopenhauer
financialmanagement786
OP you say that there is no women in USA, you would date? And that you have to go another country to find a girl. That is extremism , agree that many girls in USA does not have a good head on her shoulder but many do.
Try to find a good girl in your home town, I am sure there would many good girls around.
Home town may be a poor choice of words. I'm in a college town (albeit in the midwest), and after spending some time looking on dating sites I'd say less than 5% of the women there meet my very reasonable criteria: Not a creationist, goes to a real school, and no fucking kids. And that's even letting fat chicks and psych majors slide. Filter out those and other red flags like listening to country or rap, or "I just left a long-term relationship" (I'm 21 and the girls I look at are in that range, how fucking long could it have been?), and you're left with just about nothing.
obscenity
OP you say that there is no women in USA, you would date? And that you have to go another country to find a girl. That is extremism , agree that many girls in USA does not have a good head on her shoulder but many do.
Try to find a good girl in your home town, I am sure there would many good girls around.
Home town may be a poor choice of words. I'm in a college town (albeit in the midwest), and after spending some time looking on dating sites I'd say less than 5% of the women there meet my very reasonable criteria: Not a creationist, goes to a real school, and no fucking kids. And that's even letting fat chicks and psych majors slide. Filter out those and other red flags like listening to country or rap, or "I just left a long-term relationship" (I'm 21 and the girls I look at are in that range, how fucking long could it have been?), and you're left with just about nothing.
You are 21? Forget about a long term relationship for a few years, have fun-date short term and wait for the right one!!
21 is too dam young to settle down
By the way if you wanna
By the way if you wanna settle down, and are determined to get a foreign girl.
Indian girls are pretty cute, educated, good cook, family oriented and have a lot values. Not too difficult to get if you are good looking guy who has a decent career.
I am an Eastern European who
I am an Eastern European who lives In New York. I have been born and raised in Eastern Europe and left when I was 22 (not a MOB, but through my parents who worked in the US, if it is relevant). I have an MBA from a top-10, and I was here today because I have an M&A interview on Monday... Then I discovered this topic, which is quite hilarious.
I can say a couple of things on the subject.
First of all, I have no clue where the idea of Eastern European casual morals come from. Why Brazilians, Chinese, etc. don't get the same label? My Russian girlfriends are saints compared with some other foreign women. Then again, if an American girl has a one night stand, if is OK, she is single and discovering who she is. If a Russian does - she is, apparently, a wh-re fishing for a green card:)
Stereotyping is dangerous, although I must admit there is some truth to them. Like all Arab and Indian men will lie to you to date you while they have the arranged bridges back home waiting for them to graduate and take that banking job. Like Americans are cheap and shallow and can't point Italy on the map. Etc, etc. Shall I go on?
Yes, we do expect guys to pick up the dinner bill. But on the other hand, an idea of greeting my husband with a take out pizza box for dinner and running to my lawyer for divorce the moment I suspect infidelity is very foreign for me.
We are beautiful, caring, home-oriented, loyal, respectful and good with kids. Providing you find a right girl and she has a right guy who loves her and treats her with respect.
The topic touched my heart. I am here to answer any questions you guys might have about Eastern Europeans brides and what things to avoid when looking for one.
financialmanagement786
By the way if you wanna settle down, and are determined to get a foreign girl.
Indian girls are pretty cute, educated, good cook, family oriented and have a lot values. Not too difficult to get if you are good looking guy who has a decent career.
They also have a calculator in their mind and can be quite adventurous outside of their community. At least with Russian what you see is what you get...
In return... I would really
In return... I would really appreciate advice on where to go to meet good men in New York. I moved here 5 months ago after I left my job in London. I don't have a circle of friends and NYC night life is not a place to find a husband... I am 34 and often get approached by 25 y.o. :))))
Any idea? Thanks in advance.
Privet.
Privet.
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Privet. If you are a Russian
Privet. If you are a Russian male, you can contribute to the topic:)
obscenity
OP you say that there is no women in USA, you would date? And that you have to go another country to find a girl. That is extremism , agree that many girls in USA does not have a good head on her shoulder but many do.
Try to find a good girl in your home town, I am sure there would many good girls around.
Home town may be a poor choice of words. I'm in a college town (albeit in the midwest), and after spending some time looking on dating sites I'd say less than 5% of the women there meet my very reasonable criteria: Not a creationist, goes to a real school, and no fucking kids. And that's even letting fat chicks and psych majors slide. Filter out those and other red flags like listening to country or rap, or "I just left a long-term relationship" (I'm 21 and the girls I look at are in that range, how fucking long could it have been?), and you're left with just about nothing.
Sounds like wer're in almost the exact same place right now as far as dating goes. I've joined a big online dating site and it seems like only maybe 1 out of 10 girls actually knows what they are doing with their lives. I've actually thought about studying abroad in EE or Russia just to meet some of the women, haha.
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Interesting... Everywhere I
Interesting... Everywhere I go in NYC, I see lots and lots of pretty girls and young women... Are they really don't make the cut?:) What does it take to project "not know what you are doing with your life"?:)
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CEE wrote: Interesting...
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Under my tutelage, you will grow from boys to men. From men into gladiators. And from gladiators into SWANSONS.
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- Schopenhauer
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