Ok, before you write stuff like "good for him!" or "he's my idol," think about this for a second.
He is 51, I am 28, my brother is 22 and my sister is 21 (you can imagine her happiness about this of course...same age as the 21 year old my dad wants to marry). The smallest brother is 13.
My father divorced twice in the last 20 years, with 4 kids total.
I guess due to a mid-life crisis (which he of course denies), he started fooling around with this 20 yr old last year, and now he announced he wants to marry her.
The entire family is in shock, we are all telling him "what the hell are you doing."
What concerns me is that he is kind of wealthy, and the motives of this girl are pretty obvious, especially since she is already planning kids which is something my father decided to never ever have again.
I want his happiness and I do not want to cut my ties with him, but it is really hard for me to play nice and act like is all good, especially since she is actually turning into a controlling bitch.
He is obvously blindsided by pussy and this can potentially turn messy, especially considering that my sister of course said "you disgust me" and promised not to talk to him ever again.
What would you do ? Would you just let it be, or you would do everything possible to make him think ? Where do you draw the limit to your own personal pleasures (pussy), when you are a father of a girl the same age of the one you are banging ?