Hot Girl...or her less Hot (but still hot) Friend
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on 3/23/08 at 5:24pm
Random quesiton, I'm sure you all know what I'm talking about when you go to tenjune, marquee, home, pink elephant, etc. and you see beautiful girls dancing. Now my questions for all you is, do you go for the hottest (sexiest dancer included) girl in the crowd or her less hot (but still hot) friends?
I always tend to go for the less hot, because I feel the hot one is untouchable type. what are your thoughts all?





sorry i don't have that
sorry i don't have that problem, the hottest girls come to me
Your question is answered in
Your question is answered in the movie A Beautiful Mind, about 20 minutes in when they are at the bar. The theory makes sense, but then again, why not go for the hot girl if you think you have a shot?
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Here's my advice:
Approach the girls with confidence and show active disinterest in the true target (the hotter girl of the group). You need to show them social value (this does not mean money, it means you can't be like every other boring douche that approaches them, this also does not = money) and you need to make the target feel like SHE needs to validate herself to YOU. These girls know they are hot and pulling some shit like "hey, what are you drinking?" or "let me buy you a drink, you look great" will cause you to fail. Instead, approach, show active disinterest in the fine young philly you are targeting and occasionally put her down.
ie.) Entertain the friends, and occasionally, with careful arrogance, be a little rude to the target. When she tries to get attention, call her demanding, or ask her friends if she always acts this way. Remember, it's always about having HER fighting to win YOUR attention.
I've found that the more outright rude and arrogant I am, the better it works (note: as a caveat, this does not work for everyone, and you need to walk a fine line so that your arrogance is funny & entertaining, not ONLY rude).
So, don't worry about your "chances," make your own chances. Go for the hottest chick, just have confidence, look your best, and dominate the situation.
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Looks like TheKing has read
Looks like TheKing has read "The Game" , awesome.
Pfft...I could of written
Pfft...I could of written The Game
Bitch, please
Bitch, please. Obviously shit like "can I buy you a drink" won't fly. Skills like these should come naturally. If you have to ask, you've already failed.
Bauss
Haha, yeah, I've read the Game. It's a decent book, it mostly does a good job putting into words what dudes that already get girls already know.
Shit is on point though. I recommend the book to just about anyone as long as you don't take it too seriously. It's interesting to read it and compare it to your own game.
As for earlybird's comment, get the fuck out of here. These things come naturally to a degree, but there is always work that can be done. Not everyone has the natural inner-game to dominate the hos like you apparently do. Hahaha.
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LOL at all of this (I'm a
LOL at all of this (I'm a girl).
If I'm at a club and some guy hits on my friend instead of me, I'll just go for another guy. If the girl is actually hot why would she spend the night waiting for you - unless YOU are hot, in which case you don't have to do all this game playing as she'll want you anyway.
@fp175- every girl says the
@fp175- every girl says the complete opposite of what actually works. No offense but females are so much more emotional that they themselves don't know what they want.
Girls don't want "nice guys" or guys who hold open the door and all that shit. No matter how much you may say otherwise I think every guy who gets any knows better... the bottom line is chicks want what they can't have and every girl wants to get fucked by the rockstar (different definitions of course).
I haven't read the the game but have been told it is a pretty good framework for what most guys know instinctively. The author would make for a great consultant/case interviewee ;).
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@fp175- every girl says the complete opposite of what actually works. No offense but females are so much more emotional that they themselves don't know what they want.
Girls don't want "nice guys" or guys who hold open the door and all that shit. No matter how much you may say otherwise I think every guy who gets any knows better... the bottom line is chicks want what they can't have and every girl wants to get fucked by the rockstar (different definitions of course).
I haven't read the the game but have been told it is a pretty good framework for what most guys know instinctively. The author would make for a great consultant/case interviewee ;).
Women do want someone to treat them well, they just put up shields and make you work to get in. Once you've got a chick, you can't have a relationship based on running game. It's the game that gets you in to begin with, that gets her defenses down so you can actually get to know her.
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Fair enough but that's not
Fair enough but that's not what we are talking about.
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Women do want someone to treat them well, they just put up shields and make you work to get in. Once you've got a chick, you can't have a relationship based on running game. It's the game that gets you in to begin with, that gets her defenses down so you can actually get to know her.
and that's when you bring in special teams and go for the field goal
Roll tha Bitches
Roll tha Bitches
um no
@fp175- every girl says the complete opposite of what actually works. No offense but females are so much more emotional that they themselves don't know what they want.
Girls don't want "nice guys" or guys who hold open the door and all that shit. No matter how much you may say otherwise I think every guy who gets any knows better... the bottom line is chicks want what they can't have and every girl wants to get fucked by the rockstar (different definitions of course).
I haven't read the the game but have been told it is a pretty good framework for what most guys know instinctively. The author would make for a great consultant/case interviewee ;).
Most girls at a club don't want a "nice guy" - they are drunk with their friends and want to find a guy to hook up with. In which case, given the male/female ratio at most clubs, the girl you are ignoring will end up finding another guy who actually just buys her a drink and takes her home, while you end up with the less attractive friend.
If we are talking about non-club situations then yes, maybe these kind of games work. But if you are trying to seal the deal with a random hottie on a night out, this makes no sense. She has more choices than you do.
And please don't speak to what all girls want. Maybe the ones in college want bad boys. I've had that phase - I'd love a 30 year old ready for a serious relationship to be honest.
Haha fp your response is
Haha fp your response is classic. So many girls react in this fashion when they come across this material, but trust me, it's on point!
I used to be the "nice guy"/"friend zone" dude, till I read the game and David DeAngelo, and yeah those guys opened up my eyes to things I had long suspected.
I didnt believe it would work, but it does work! You become less hit and miss and more hit, hit, hit.
But fp, I'm interested to hear a females p.o.v. Lets do the opposite of what King says:
The guy comes up to you, tells you you are the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, proceeds to buy you all the drinks you want, and bows down to every whim of yours, and basically behaves like a spineless pussy and worships the ground you are on in that club. Will he get some?
Of course not, but neither
Rockstar doesn't equate with
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I tend to agree with
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yes, AT A CLUB nice guys go
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14 inches
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Definetly I agree, the best
5'9" will never be 6'4", no
6'2
What I read definitely
Charisma
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Hot girl may have STDs. Less
OMG....
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i think thats a big prob
You would be surprised at
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1. Never take a woman's
Don't be ridiculous.
Variety?
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See you all have it all
"Oh the ladies ever tell you that you look like a fucking optical illusion" - Frank Slaughtery 25th Hour.
Dudes..
No.
No.
In a new environment, I've
Ok.
I can't stand this anymore
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Hilarious thread
I just got my hands on a
What's the exact title of the book?