Invited to Dinner by Director, What does this mean?

I moved to NY 3 weeks ago and have been networking my ass off. I have had 5-7 "meetings" per week. These have not been interviews for particular jobs, but more like "here I am, this is my experience, this is what I want to do, here is an investment idea." - I go all these by cold calling.

I met with all the bulge bracket banks and a few hedge funds to discuss a particular derivative product I am interested in getting involved with. This product is very thinly traded if at all, but I am very interested in it and I think it has a lot of potential. The banks have like one guy who oversees the product.

A BB Director I met with my first week here told me to stay in touch and let him know how my other meetings went. I circled back with him on Monday with a 4 page letter telling him about the derivative products potential and my findings, and at the end asked the bank to hire me for an Analyst position for X salary and I would do Y responsibilities and my goal would be Z. He was in London all week, so he circled back with me on Friday after I touched base AGAIN. He said"We are not hiring right now - but there may be possibilities down the line. Could I invite you for dinner? Monday work? "

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? WHAT SHOULD I EXPECT? HOW DO I PREPARE?

This is obviously another opportunity to sell myself and discuss the markets. Will he make me an internship/temp-to-perm/perm offer? Assistant to him? He is a Director so I feel like he could get me hired if he really wanted to.

Senior Monkeys/Directors on WSO what do you think?

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What level are you at? Do you have a well differentiated set of skills? If you have a legit set of skills this dinner makes sense, if not something else might be going on - lunch or drinks would be a more normal setting for a meeting like this

 

I am 24 - 1 year MM IB Analyst, 1 year distressed debt analyst at small shop. Non-target undergrad.

I am interested in and know a lot about property derivatives, been around real estate my entire life and see them as the last frontier - this Director is head of property derivatives at the bank. I took him a basis trade idea with property derivatives and CMBS.

 

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