Turned down offer
Was interviewing for a NY-based secondaries fund over the past 2 months. It was a crap process - did 4 rounds, a case(VP level job), and a modeling test (lol). Met with the manager partner twice and every team member.
At the end of the fourth round I sent a thank you note to the managing partner as well as HR. HR told me I would hear back either way by the end of the week. Never heard from them - 4 weeks go by...nothing.
I ran into the managing partner at a networkijg event last week and he acted like nothing happened and asked if I'd like to join the firm. I told him I wasn't interested and mentioned how I never heard back - he was pretty surprised but I held firm.