In a rut looking to find my way out

I'm a rising senior at a semi-target, west coast university with a relatively robust alumni network. Did not manage to land a SA position for the summer, but I'm working in an FP&A/Commercial Banking role. I'm looking to break into IB for FT recruiting, but I do have quite a bit working against me. Following my Freshman year, I had a 3.9 GPA, a boutique VC internship, and I was actively speaking to bankers in regard to recruiting. Unfortunately, throughout my sophomore year, I was dealing with a mix of a terrible gf and learning that my father was diagnosed with and would later pass away from lung cancer. Throughout junior year I tried to dig myself out but was completely out of it. I had to frequently travel back home to take care of my mother. Now, I am in quite a pickle with FT recruiting coming up having a 3.2 GPA and no IB experience. 

Understanding my situation, I've been trying to add points to my resume In order to combat the negatives working against me. I've tacked on a double major in accounting (now Finance + Accounting) and taken the most challenging finance coursework available to me. I also signed up for the August CFA level 1. I understand it doesn't have a great deal of transferrable skills, but I'm attempting to prove my interest in the industry and that I'm willing to work hard. I've also signed up for the FINRA SIE to again prove an interest in the industry. Finally, I have been working hard on technicals and modeling (quick shoutout to WSO Passport offered through my school).

In school, I am also the president of an on-campus venture platform and startup accelerator. I also serve as the VPF for my business fraternity. Unfortunately, delaying graduation isn't an option as my scholarship is the only way I'm able to go to school. 

I am quite personable and would love an opportunity to put my skills to the test. I'm definitely willing to start off at a smaller bank (or any bank willing to give me an offer) and possibly lateral, but if there's any opportunity within UMM, EB, or BB, I would obviously love to pursue it. 

For any current bankers, what could someone in my position do to convince you to give me a shot at an interview? I worked hard in high school and was one of the only ones to make it to my university. I know I can work hard, and I'm willing to push myself as hard as possible, but my resume doesn't tell the same story. What can I do to prove myself and push myself forward?