Sending Holiday Cards to Contacts / Helpful individuals

Is it completely acceptable (untacky) to send holiday cards to your contacts. I recently went through the recruiting season and got some great advice form individuals I cold-emailed / called. I feel this is the least I could do in terms of thanking them. I won't be working with most of those I send cards out to, would this still be tacky?

-In addition, what about sending a card to the associate that helped you land the interview (that I definitely would not have gotten without his cold-email response?)

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Had a guy that is heavily invested with a firm that works closely with Paulson & Co. that has helped me out over the past few years while I've been in college. Got him a bottle of blue label for xmas. told me to send him my updated resume so he can pass it onto the firms CEO when he has dinner with him.

Not saying you should buy a $200 bottle of liquor for everyone, but they do appreciate being remembered, especially the older ones.

 

Don't do it.

[quote]The HBS guys have MAD SWAGGER. They frequently wear their class jackets to boston bars, strutting and acting like they own the joint. They just ooze success, confidence, swagger, basically attributes of alpha males.[/quote]
 

why don't you chop off your balls and send those with the card as well

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captainkoolaidwhy don't you chop off your balls and send those with the card as well

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL. Ok, that was pretty funny. Kthxbye.

[quote]The HBS guys have MAD SWAGGER. They frequently wear their class jackets to boston bars, strutting and acting like they own the joint. They just ooze success, confidence, swagger, basically attributes of alpha males.[/quote]
 

Time will heal a rocky relationship with a boss. They'll probably forget about why things were rocky sooner than you think. I can't imagine a boss holding a long term grudge unless they were a total prick. In short, no Xmas cards...just call them if you need a reference.

 
Bobby DigitalTime will heal a rocky relationship with a boss. They'll probably forget about why things were rocky sooner than you think. I can't imagine a boss holding a long term grudge unless they were a total prick. In short, no Xmas cards...just call them if you need a reference.
How much time are we looking at here? 6 months? 6 years? Wow, so I am shocked about the resounding "No" to holiday cards on this forum. Would it just come off as onboxious?
 

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