Curious about how some men date - A not so nice view - Let's talk
I realized after hanging out with a few older men in the finance world how they're living multiple lives with different wives.
One Chat I had with a larger CRE portfolio owner (The 31 yr old son of a large family office) - Of over $2.1B in assets:
He told me how he has 2 families across the states and Canada. His #1 wife lives with him and his family in New Jersey. But she's a conventional 7.5 but with amazing family and personal morals (she's 4 yrs younger).
The guy after a few yrs in his marriage decided to find someone younger and more beautiful, but if his family and first wife found out, his dad would kick him aside from the family and so he won't let that happen. This guy literally hired a private PI & matchmaker (spending over $50k) in finding a down to earth 22 yr old from the Iraq (a conventional 9 in beauty with an english major). He then moved her and her family to Vancouver where he visits her 7 days a month.
He also keeps going on dates with random women whenever he's travelling out of state alone. When he wants to spend family time or Christmas, he travels to whichever wife he feels for.
The reason why it's easy for him to keep this going without it being exhausting is because of his #2 personal assistant who makes sure all his non business relations and needs are met. He pays them well above the norm.
Also, the reason why he has wives is because he's a family man who wants to lock down women he adores.
None of the families and wives know of each other and the dude's wealth or family. He is a genuine dude who actually is kind and treats his wives and their family happy. The guy just loves women and can't get enough. He's a good friend of mine so I know him pretty well.
This got me thinking, does anyone else on here have this or wants this in their lives?