Do girls mind/like chest/body hair?

I've been with 4 girls in my life and none of them cared that I had chest hair. I'm single rn and just asked out someone. My weird coworkers make a big deal out of small things and I was wondering if it was really that much of a turnoff or a dealbreaker?

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Depends if she's into boys or men.

Seriously though, I've never had a girl complain about chest/body hair, if anything some girls get turned on by chest hair, especially when they can see it when you just unbutton the top button of your shirt. Bit odd I think but that's women for you.

I'd just ask her, not on the first date obviously, what she likes and do that. If she says to shave your arms and legs however, that's weird, don't do it.

 
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Had this argument in college with the fellows (Im a hairy dude, but I shave a lot of stuff)

We conclude that we've never been getting with a chick and she stopped bc we took our shirt off showing hair.

I would say it's all about the image you're trying to project, and what makes you feel good. If you feel more confident shaving most of it, then do it. If you feel you don't have too, then dont. You will find women who like both. It's similar to body type, some women like a chubby guy, others want one whose in shape.

 

I think it depends on the chest hair, it's like facial hair. If it looks manly, good, if it looks terrible, shave it.

If you're in good shape, shaving your chest hair helps make your pecs pop more. I work out fairly regularly and shave my chest (not a very hairy person so it looks weird if I don't) and I've gotten numerous compliments from girls over the years.

Kind of depends on your genetics, your vibe and the types of chicks you're going for.

 

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