So this question has been bothering me for a few days now.
I was leaving my internship for another internship last week. When we were saying our byes, one of my coworkers stood up, and it seemed like he wanted to hug me. But then again we were in the middle of the office on a busy working day, so I did not proceed to hug him.
Later that day, I was saying bye to a female coworker, and she hugged me. No awkwardness there.
I had my first day at a new internship this week, and my new coworkers took me out for drinks. I was saying bye to a female coworker, and somehow naturally hugged her.
Now I am not sure if this was right. What is the protocol for hugging coworkers or ex-coworkers? Or am I overthinking this again?
Take it on a hug by hug basis.
"I had my first day at a new internship this week, and my new coworkers took me out for drinks. I was saying bye to a female coworker, and somehow naturally hugged her."
I don't know why, but this cracked me up.
Don't overthink this. If a hug comes naturally, own it, put 110% into that hug. I personally wouldn't have hugged someone so soon after meeting them, but hey, everyone's different, just make sure you own it. Be that person who hugs people.
This is why I sincerely believe only 10% of people on this forum have any sense of social awareness...
Nailed it. If you cannot figure out when it's fine to hug women, you're 100% a virgin.
Only if they have a 34C or above.
OP is a woman, by the way.
Jesus, that just made it even more baffling.
People hug at my bank.
No problem with people at Analyst/Associate level especially, maybe things could get weird if you are seen hugging an MD close to when bonuses are given out - even if innocent, you don't want things taken out of context
I don't hug my coworkers. Then again I'm a guy and they're all guys.
I don't think anyone is going to analyze your hugging habits, OP
Thanks for advice!
I guess I was overthinking this again...
This question is too dumb to be posted on here, even if this is an anonymous forum on the internet...
If you cannot figure out when it's fine to hug women, you're 100% a virgin.
If you're a dude approaching another dude, do the bro hug: one pump hand shake and then pull them in for a pat on the back.
If you're a chick, you can hug as vigorously (or not) as you like.
I think the European cheek to cheek thing is weird, regardless of gender.
Advice is intended for social settings only for similar level people. Not advised for senior bankers or clients.
Some people hug. Some don't. I enthusiastically reciprocate when huggers hug but never initiate unless I know they're comfortable. Don't think too much about it.
Now a hug with a little grab ass is a different story.
This is too good!! SB
Here is an excellent resource, it should provide you some guidance:
Squeeze ass when hugging to establish dominance.
Make sure to give a prolonged gropey hug. Don't be afraid to let the fingers wander
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