Domestic Violence

he is...because he's a faggot

I'm sorry but if you think you need to 'defend' yourself after a woman 'pushes' you, you need to either a) sack the fuck up or b) hang out with less butchy women

And its his wife?! What is he defending himself from, exactly?

Yea haul this loser off to jail - in front of kids too? Classless.

Wow - not even close to self defense. I hope this guy gets the shit kicked out of him in prison.

By Abdel's logic if a 4 year old kicked you in the knee you could drop kick him because he hit you first.. This dude is grade A trash.

Yeah, I mean the guy was making threatening advances and actions the entire time. He was twice her size and she barely pushed him. Clear case of assault and domestic violence. Jail time for bubba.

Nice to see trash breeding. I am sure our taxes will go to pay for that kid. Ugg.

The comments on youtube are pretty disturbing (e.g., she attacked him first, 'she's asking for it'...) - I hope they're just written for shock value.

News article on this yet?

This is so pathetic. The guy was like ''this is my playstation!''.

That's horrible. I think a male's rights are easily thrown out the window nowadays but this is a pretty clear-cut example of a guy with a problem. That was pretty unpleasant to watch.

Tough call on this one, lol. I do not stand behind the premise that a guy should never hit a girl...but I would try to avoid the situation at all cost, because just as this video showed, you can't win. Physically you are (almost always) bigger and stronger and therefor you will always look like the predator.

I'm not condoning what this guy did but this isn't necessarily a slam dunk if it goes to court. The guy's attorney will point out that the woman instigated the situation, he was hit (and shoved) first and that it was a natural reaction to punch back in defense (whether it's true or not). Hopefully, the woman's attorney will point out the aggression of the guy as he yanked things away and kicked over the DVDs or whatever they were.

Sadly, I've been in a situation that I lost my temper and punched a hole in the wall. I was not in a good mood and my girlfriend was drunk and nagging me about my ex-gf (who I hadn't even seen in years). I knew I was starting to get mad about the whole situation so I tried to leave for a walk and she blocked the door...so short of physically moving her I actually couldn't leave (unless I kicked out the screen on the balcony and jumped down 2 stories). I eventually got so pissed I punched the wall and busted a giant hole in it. I told her that I was going to break out the screen and jump off the balcony so I could leave and headed towards the back door. She tried to beat me to it (so she could block it) by racing across the apartment so I jumped over the couch and went out the front door that she left unattended. I ended up walking about 10 miles before she was able to find me and pick me up.

I've always felt like a d-bag for losing control like that but it is what it is. I had been drinking and didn't handle the situation in the appropriate manner (though I would have never hit her and was trying to do the right thing). She was drunk and inadvertently made me mad. After getting mad, I tried to go walk it off. She thought I was walking out, to leave forever...which is why she was blocking the door. That made me so mad, instead of just walking around the block and cooling down, I tried to walk back to my car...which was about 20 miles away (did I mentioned I was drinking and very mad? LOL). The point to all that is you, as the male, have to be the bigger person, figuratively speaking. If she hits you, you might have a small red mark. If you hit her, she will be swollen and bruised. What looks worse when the cops show up? Plus, in many places, if you are living with someone and the cops show up because of a physical exchange, someone will have to leave for the night and in most cases that means the guy and the place he goes is jail.

The smartest thing to do is remove yourself as fast as possible from the situation because nothing good can come of it. Leave with what little you need for the night and then request that a LEO meet you at the place the next day so you can gather your belongings and nothing spills overboard. Woman know just how to push a guy's buttons and if that is something that could lead you to doing something you would regret, be smart and remove yourself from the situation or even the relationship if necessary...especially if you care about the person.

As an aside. I would really like to know who actually started the video recording. Given that the guy knew the camera was there, it seems as though he thought that something might go down, but that is merely speculation. You can see from the video the woman was already irritated when she brushed by the child and guy. In my opinion she seemed to be looking for a fight (though probably just verbal). Again, I'm not defending the guy. In fact, if that was his camera and he was recording this because he suspected something bad might go down then he should have been all the more aware to not engage in any altercation, whether verbal or physical.

It's sad that this stuff goes on but it's what you get when you have a bunch of immature adults getting married to people they think they love. I'm not in a relationship for a couple of reasons. One, I haven't found a good enough girl to replace my last one and two...and definitely more importantly...because I'm selfish and don't want to devote the time, money or effort it would take to be in a serious relationship. That is also why I don't have a dog, lol. That is how most people are but they are unwilling to admit it or feel they have to stick to some predetermined timeline of being married by the time they are 24 and having kids by the time they are 26.

Regards

When can we start requiring licensing for people to have children??

dont hit women... The second you get the feeling that you want to hit the girl end the relationship... there are plenty other women running around outside looking for a man

if you think any woman is worth catching a case and going through the legal system you are a foolish foolish man

i for one say rihanna had it coming to her for mouthing off. to think chris brown's career was nearly ruined. unthinkable.

Fucking asshat.

I can never understand why men beat non butch woman...

buddy is going to straight to jail.

Clearly this guy is going down. Maybe she's smarter than she looks though. Was this thing all a set up? The camera is positioned perfectly to capture the action, and she knew right where to stand. Not saying she is in the wrong at all here, just that maybe this had been a pattern and no one believed her and she was attempting to gather evidence. Anyway, smart of her. I hope this guy goes down hard and that the kids can somehow bounce back from this.