For those of you who had a relationship with little to no sex, how long did you stay in it before you called it quits/are you still in the situation?
How did you deal with a mostly sexless relationship? How long before you couldn't take it any longer?
People may call this cap or whatever which is fair enough but for me personally after the end of my first relationship from College (was 22) any girl I dated, if we didn't fuck within the first 2 encounters then there was no reason to pursue anything further. I understand this doesn't fall in line with many peoples beliefs or principles which is fair enough and I wouldn't want or expect everybody to think like me but for me honestly after two dates or encounters or whatever, if I hadn't smashed then I lose interest super quickly. All that making wait shit just doesn't work with me and I view it as a waste of time.
If there are religious reasons than I can understand but if that’s not the case than why not have sex? I was watching the Hodge twins and one of them said that he stayed in a relationship for six months with a girl and she didn’t have sex with him. Came home one day to find her banging some other dude. Probably made up but I thought it was hilarious.
Hodge twins? Boring... Try the Hoff twins:
The magic trick is - you don’t become exclusive with girls like these. Date multiple girls, and if one girl in particular doesn’t want to have sex for one reason or another, eventually she gets phased out and is lower priority
> dating multiple girls is trash
>> recommends dating multiple girls
Back when I was dating, I'd give them up to 2 months before dumping, that being said, after about 3-4 dates with nothing, I would start backing off.
why is it sexless?
Honestly sex gets kinda boring with the same partner all the time. If you wanna get into an LTR, sex probably shouldn’t be that high on your priority list. In your 20s/early 30s is when you experience the best of what that world (one night stands and all that) has to offer, and after that if you go for the wife/husband + kids route, prioritize things like stability, personality, opinions on views etc. I personally don‘t bother with initiating sex anymore, and do it about half the time when the SO initiates. Call me a cuck but I’m just bored and prefer to focus on other stuff.
Lol for me it´s literally the exact opposite. Nothing more amazing than releasing my man milk inside my gf and holding and kissing her. She´s also pretty kinky and likes to try stuff, so we don´t really get bored.
This is what I want in life.
Bump
If it is important to you? Get the fuck out after 6 months of no sex. However, guys, there is a time in a new relationship where the girl will withold sex, to see if you actually like her as a person. Don't confuse this with actual sexless relationship.
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