Gold Diggers

I will never understand women who go after men with money just so they can live a lavish life and do nothing.

Personally, I dont feel comfortable relying on a man for money. I like having my own.

Men, do you mind taking care of a woman financially?

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"michigan10483" yes

You would mind taking care of your woman financially? That's mean, bro. If you're going to date your sister, you should at least take her out to dinner and provide for her life.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Step one is finding a woman who can already provide for herself (hint: most, if not all, members of my family are making high income). I just don't feel comfortable sharing the result of my hard work with a useless dumb woman who gives nothing in exchange but sex, which is actually quite cheap and easy to re-create.

Also, it sucks dating women whom you can't even initiate an intelligent conversation with.

 

Likely a result of thousands of years of the man being the hunter and the woman staying in the cave taking care of the newborns. I'll say this: There has definitely been a shift in the number of women becoming more interested in working but there will always be the lazy/entitled who just don't want to work. They take advantage of their looks and use them to get what they want.

If my wife preferred to stay home and take care of the kids that's fine. However, I know my current girlfriend is ambitious and is planning on getting into medicine, which will require long hours. This is also fine with me. Something I would not be okay with is if my wife planned on not doing anything and not taking the care of the kids either so she could shop, make pottery, and go to wine tasting every night.

 

Wouldn't mind taking care of a woman financially(wouldn't marry though) if she cooked and cleaned. But if she is the independent, career woman type, she can pay for herself. Either type of woman is fine, they just get a different viewpoint on the matter from me due to their views/choices.

 
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