Hit the Desk in September - Brothers Wedding in December?
I start at a BB this summer. Training is through August and I start on my desk in September. My brother is getting married across the country in December. I am supposed to be a groomsman in his wedding. It’s a pretty big deal that I go, obviously. How negatively will this be viewed? I always hear horror stories about people having to miss weddings, etc. I worked hard last summer for my offer and long hours, etc wont be a problem, but I worry that asking for a weekend off so soon after I start will give me a bad reputation. Am I freaking out over nothing or will this look bad?
Do not miss your brother's wedding. You will regret that so much more than you will regret putting your associate in a tough spot for a weekend. Also, don't mention it now. Wait until 2-4 weeks before the event. Your group will be able to manage. Some people might give you a hard time, but most won't.
In either case, it will be far from their minds by the time they discuss bonuses in ~April/May, and by December people will already have a view as to whether you are a good or bad analyst.
Part of being able to survive as an analyst is knowing when to take a hard line and push back. This is one of those times.
good response re ib ny +1
yeah, dont miss the wedding, it will be fine to go for a day no need to worry, just let them know in advance (2 weeks is enough) so everybody is in the clear.
As mentioned..missing your brothers wedding will be the last thing you want to do. Take the time now to build good relationship with your team so when you have to break it to them later it will be easier and they will be more understanding.
why is this even a question? What kind of brainwashing is going on that causes people to think missing work for a brother's wedding is a problem
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