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I am multilingual, with native fluency in 2-3 languages, and conversational ability (varying levels) in a few other languages.

The common mistake in how we learn a foreign language is that we often try to learn grammar and writing at the same time as conversation. That isn't how we learn our first language as a child.

Taking the example of how we learn our first language, we first learn words and phrases (entirely conversational/spoken), all before we learn reading, writing, or grammar in school.

That is the key I've found (as I believe was discovered by Dr. Paul Pimsleur), that if you learn spoken (conversation) first -- before you learn reading/writing/grammar -- it allows you to learn the language much better, and allows you to get to that next step, of reading/writing/grammar.

That's largely why the Pimsleur Method has been adopted by much of government and the corporate world.

Search: Pimsleur Method for information, and materials that support this strategy.

I hope this helps.


P.S. Which language did you have in mind?

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came here to say this. I'm trilingual (native in english, fluent in spanish & italian) and currently learning french. after a few basic lessons on duolingo to get a few words I've found that diving into conversations (I use italki as well as other native/fluent speakers in my network) helps the most and then once I have a basic level of conversational proficiency (e.g. I can introduce myself, say my hobbies, ask for basic directions, order food) then the grammar starts to make sense.

the above video changed how I look at language learning and dispelled the myth that adults need to learn in a different way from children, it's the exact same just the speed and the plasticity of our brains is different.

if I had to learn a language rapidly that wasn't related to any of the ones I currently know (e.g. Greek), I'd do the following

  1. duolingo for at least a couple hours a day
  2. do not consume any media in my native language, but instead switch to only language lessons (coffee break languages, easy languages on youtube, etc.)
  3. once I have a basic proficiency, change the language in my phone to my target lang
  4. schedule daily (maybe multiple times a day) italki lessons as well as a language exchange with a native speaker, so I'm using it every single day
  5. buy a bilingual book in the language that I already know the context and read it vigorously
  6. find a way to use the language locally (e.g. meetups, cultural festivals) and make this at least a monthly habit
  7. book a trip to where the target lang is spoken 6mos out

if you do the above for 6mos you'll probably be at least a low intermediate depending upon your discipline. after that I'd then consider switching up my italki lessons to be more focused (e.g. do I need this for work, for familial reasons, what? and then select a tutor based upon that), read more books, consume more content, but continue the habit of speaking, reading, and writing every single day

BONUS - if you have a cultural connection to the language find an excuse for this. while I would've considered myself fluent in italian before my trip last spring, I essentially had to be translator (I was the only fluent italian and fluent english speaker) for a large family dinner with extended family. while it was mentally exhausting being put in a pressure situation really helps your language development because you have to think on your feet, so I now highly value sitautions where you are under pressure, and therefore recommend you find as many opps for those as possible

Godspeed

 

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