Loneliness and curse of being a mystique person

Always been that type of guy who is mysterious and is a black horse. Heard this quote today and realise the truth in being one of those Hollywood-esque character. Ask me anything about my life. Let's get to know each other :)

The man who holds the most secrets and stories, is the loneliest man.

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I am a mystic. I love animals and nature.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Same. I tend to connect much better with them than people. People tend to sometime aren't just sincere or real or awake enough you know.

 

No my favourite band is actually FUR (they are really good look them up) and my favourite movie is the Age of Adaline since I share so much sympathy and commonalities for this character Adaline

 

Why in the world would you want to be this mysterious, lonely charactiture? Sure I'm sure it's cool when some rando at a bar remarks on it or it helps you with a hookup, but it detaches you from close relationships....which ultimately only hurts you LT

Don't get me wrong, in their teens lot of guys would want to have this persona but as you get into your mid-20s and beyond you've got to realize there's more to life 

 

Haha it's my personality. Usually I try to be friendly in my office and on my social media by leaving smiley faces. But people just perceive me as cold and very tactile. I legit like human interaction but it's my style that people gets intimidated by. Also some people I find just not sincere or real enough to even be friends or talk with. So I just tend to be mysterious and resort to witty punchline rebuttals. I do though connect well with people older than me and kids. Sometimes random people too. I am friends with the deli guy and girls since they really understand and is like not a wannabe+down to earth. I also am friends with some of my sales clerk where I shop. But normally I'd just be like walking down the street (people describe me exuding the same vibe as those pictures of a sassy woman with a dobermann) and like idk I just look too confident you know (not trying to kiss my own ass but you know what i mean, some people is afraid of opening up to you if you are too dominant in the talk)

 
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Yep. I try to open up to people. But when you are going to different schools every 1-3 years. And stays in dorm (haha I joke that my parents hate me but really they are just busy ghahah). It is hard to keep up with friends. I have a lot of friends that I get along with but it is really not nice to having to check on with them texting everyday and 500+ people from different timezone. So I tend to just check in on them sometimes and hang out with the girls I met > had a fling but then I have FOMO and scared that I'll leave them and break their heart I just kind of like turn assholic and try to break them off. Which they understand after they found out I really do care for them and don't want them to be sad. So therefore like in the recent post of I miss casual sex or something in the off topic. I have a lot of "partners" and love affairs that is actually my friend and we have mutual respect and care for each other. They show me their country and city and I show them/take them on tour of my cities and countries. Hence many lovers. I am too lucky to even have them all. Can't be thankful enough or complain.

 

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