Tinder match didn’t respond now will be spending the weekend with her in a airbnb…

What’s the move here? Matched with a girl on tinder that i knew of but never had met in person and shot her a message. Got no response. Now I just found out the tinder match and her friend (who is good friends with my friend) are going to be staying with us at the airbnb we got for a little weekend getaway. How do I approach this?

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Hahaha ya. Would only bring it up as a joke if we get along well for the weekend. Just don’t know what the vibe will be / how to act upon arrival at the house. I think I’m a pretty good looking guy and have a good funny personality. and whenever i do seal the deal with a girl it’s always in person never initiated through tinder first.

 
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Don’t overthink this chief... girls get hundreds of messages on tinder and don’t respond to them. If she’s on tinder, she’s DTF. Fuck her brains  out and try to have a three way  

 

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