Are girls who are on birth control more or less attractive to you, holding all else equal?

She's back at your place, and things start getting fiesty.
Before you know it, both of you are bare(ly wearing anything). You reach for a rubber in your condom drawer, but she pulls your hand away. "No it's ok babe, I'm on the pill."

In my mind, her desirability drops slightly. It makes me think she sleeps around quite often (as in, a lot) Obviously, I don't make a huge deal out of it and keep at it (depending on the girl, I might make fun of her). [Yes, some girls are on the pill to reduce mood swings every month. For argument's sake, let's assume she's taking it purely for contraceptive reasons.]

For perspective, I'm a guy in my late 20s with the girls ranging from 18-22.

So I'm curious. For you guys in this situation, does your impression of her change?
Or do you not give a flying fuck.

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I understand your point of view but from my experience most girls, especially girls in the 18-22 range, are on the pill for every reason except contraception. Reasons include acne treatment, treatment for severe period pain/endometriosis, and regulating menstrual cycles, among other things of course which are not as simplistic as "to reduce mood swings." So I feel like very rarely is the reason a girl is on BC because she's having soo much sex and it's sort of unfair to just make that assumption.

 

I am reminded that everyone lies and I double up my jimmy hat. If they say they’re not on the pill specifically, I triple up. Just to be sure.

I can’t have Sharon poking around in my personal life and inadvertently mentioning something inappropriate to my family. You understand, I’m sure.

 

the fact this thread has been largely ignored (other than you absolutely hate me) makes one think:

  • you guys are all gay
  • you are straight, single, and never get any
  • you are straight, married, and, well, I feel sorry for you.
 

So her desirability drops because she "just" sleeps quite often (as in, a lot) not because STD chances go through the roof? And yet you post shit like this afterwards: "you guys are all gay, you are straight blablabla" I can't be assed to type all of your pseudo-player garbage back to you.

And before you say, pfff STDs - means you haven't experienced this before and have no idea of the consequences and severity of such a thing happening.

 

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