Main question is is the title. Background below if you need more of an explanation.
I made $160k last year and my 60k bonus just hit the bank account before the a long weekend. I had a couple of things I wanted to blow some money on: a gaming PC ($2k, I'm into the technology), trip with a girl I've been talking to running about $3k, upgrading my warddrobe for a couple thousand...
But when it comes time to pull the trigger on these purchases, I can't do it. I have about $140k saved at 25, and I still can't get comfortable spending it. Biggest purchase I have made in my life were courtside seats at an NBA game ($>1k). I know people who make half what I do and still manage to spend on $800 shoes.
How do you get to that level of comfort with your spending? I obviously don't want to spend all of it, but I feel like I'm hoarding it and not living enough. Anyone else like this?