Marry an Eastern European/Foreign Woman
Mail-order-bride kind of. I've been watching TCL 90 day and it seems to work out for men.
I am rich now but still, the only American women who are interested in me for reasons other than money are dog-ugly overeducated types who work in finance. I can get some hot Americans women by flaunting my wealth, but they are all hoes. Might as well marry an Eastern European and Filipino gold-digger who has some cultural values (femininity) as opposed to an American one who lacks even that.
Do any of you monkeys have personal stories about this? I can afford a good lawyer for pre-nup etc and am seriously thinking about this.
A smaller portion of people I have met have done this, got a spouse from another country. Nothing speaks against it because, frankly, if you or anyone trying to date is in their 30s or even 40s the local dating pool shrinks significantly (local age-appropriate men & women are then either married, divorced, with kids, excess baggage/issues, etc). This seems easier to do for men than women but it should be possible either way.
The relevant aspects are not why you/others are doing this, but more about having realistic expectations in how your future would look like. Try having an honest and open discussion with your SO with facetime/skype and that will bring a lot of clarity before rushing into things. Also vet the agency properly (if you are using one) before signing or paying for anything. If you do use an agency USCIS will ask for the agency name and information on the I-129F.
Thanks for that. I'd probably use a pre-vetted site If I may ask, how did it go for them?
From what I can tell, it went well for for them. The following data is from anecdotal references in Germany, UK, US and Canada - the locations where most of my friends are:
There are hundreds of questions like these, make a list and talk them through BEFORE you marry a person from another culture.
I'd rather live with someone that has a brain than a model without one
I am making 7 figures at a quant hedge fund. I have no need for "brains." I want the best in life--a beautiful model wife who will stay home with the kids!
Nothing wrong with that.
Just be wary - when you're drunk or offered sex, think rationally. Don't give her your bank account info, buy her a house/watch, etc. Getting a good lawyer prepared is a great foresight for the inevitable.
Good luck
Go to church or get involved in volunteering efforts. You will meet high quality dating candidates.
The pathetic nature of this is amazing. You don't need to flaunt wealth to get a quality put-together woman, just be put together yourself and actually start sparking up conversations. Coffee shops, the gym, the mall, grocery stores, museums, etc. But guess what, you actually have to have the balls to start talking to them.
Keep it short, less than 5min, and ask them for their number as to go for a drink next Thursday/Friday/Saturday. 99% of the time the worst thing that happens is a "sorry, I have a bf," but women appreciate the confidence assuming you're not autistic. It's a bit of a numbers game, but guys these days are such pussies.
I am not interested in a "quality put-together woman" whatever the fuck that means.
I would like an 18-20yo model quality woman. How the fuck can a 30 yo chat-up a 19 yo college girl without looking like a fucking creep?
I have be browsing some of the girls online. WOW! Totally model quality.
It helps quite a bit to not be a creep in the first place, and I would argue that if you're resorting to importing a likely poor girl from Eastern Europe who's 10 years junior to you, you should consider whether that distinction applies to you.
Well, I am not the most smooth person I will say that, I am pretty socially awkward (quant hedge fund). I make solid money however, and would greatly like an 18-20 yo who will be a child-bearing wife. It is hard to find that here, as all the women have fucked dozens of guys.
I have read that everytime a woman fucks a man, some of his DNA permanently remains inside her. Yuck!
I sincerely hope you never reproduce.
LOL where do you browse these girls? mailbride.com?
Easier to swipe on an app than talking to ladies in real life.
Lots of e-alpha out there.
I wouldn't really go for a mail order bride unless you are that desperate and anyone you've met was insane or incredibly unattractive, which simply isn't the case.
The dating scene is a market. You have something to offer and something you want. Girls do too. Finding the right match takes time. You have to look for specific values while having to offer what the girl with those specific values wants.
If you managed to get into IB or similar, it's not harder than that.
That being said, my girlfriend is from Eastern Europe and I'd say she combines the pros of modernity with those of tradition. She's educated, polyglot, high IQ but at the same time wants to have multiple kids, values the nuclear family, Western culture and freedoms, femininity. Add great fashion taste and a thig gap as she did ballet. I am indeed considering marriage.
Many millennial Western women unfortunately have been poisoned by 3rd wave feminism, don't want to have kids, think gender is a social construct and hate ''gender roles'' (until you have to pay for their meals), want to slut around and then incessantly whine about being still alone at 30-35 and say ''I've wasted my life and I'm no longer desiderable''.
This is a very good point. As someone with Eastern European roots, I enjoy visiting my family still there and am amazed at the progress the countries have made. Naturally they still have long ways to go, but overall the people are very friendly and very down to earth, people you'd love to share a beer and some vodka with. Depending on where you look, you can find a very good quality dating people of attractive and educated women who are also committed to family values, so it can be the best of both worlds. English is becoming increasingly more common since it's taught in schools so the language barrier is becoming less of an issue, plus someone knowing English is a sign that they care about developing themselves so that's good.
^This. I had several EE ex gfs and I have visited Poland, Hungary, Croatia, Slovakia and other regions frequently. It seams the Eastern European area has improved a lot over the years and the quality of life is amazing. You won't see the same amount of luxury cars like in London or NYC - but who cares? The people are outstanding and none of the typical stereotypes were true.
Wow that sounds like a great catch for you! I'd marry in a heartbeat!
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Women who go after money can be found in every country. I guess you mean to say you want to leverage your citizenship in hopes for getting an Eastern European woman because even an average american can pull a girl from there if her eyes are on permanent residency.
Majority of women there are traditional as most of the folks here have mentioned. I am friends with few Russians and Ukrainians. These women also have some negative qualities (sort of, not for me though because I have become used to it) which most of us tend to ignore, like being demanding. I don't think I should generalize but I am pessimistic about men like you meeting a nice woman who will stick with you for your whole life. I suggest you to develop your personality first and then go out for meeting/dating women.
After reading your post, I will also recommend you to hire a sugar baby instead of going to Europe to find your bride, You seem to have a lot of cash to burn. You will get a sexy body to fuck at night and a traditional woman to be there for you during the day.
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