My mom keeps telling me to meet a nice Jewish girl before I graduate.

I'm graduating this year and am going to be working in Asset Management in the large metropolitan area my school is in. Lately, my mom has been bugging me about getting into a "serious" relationship.

Her rationale is that this is the only time in my life where I'm surrounded by attractive and intelligent girls and that once I start working, it's going to be harder to meet those types of girls. I sort of understand where she's coming from. For most of college, I'd date one girl a semester, take her to my fraternity date night, then end it next week; which meant I never actually dated anyone serious enough to introduce to my parents.

I just feel like I haven't really hit my stride as a person though. I'm going to be making money and am healthy (work out, healthy eating, skincare, etc.), so I'm sure I'm going to age well into my late-20s and early-30s.

For people who've graduated, do you regret not getting into a serious relationship while in undergrad?

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You are the first Jewish person I've ever heard of whose mother wanted them to find a nice Jewish girl to settle down with. I've never heard of that before...

As a gentile who grew up having half of my good friends as Jews and dated my fair share of Jewish girls (whose mothers freaked out because they thought their little girl was going it marry a goy), relax. Have fun. I think one of the worst possible things ever would be to pull along a piece of tail from college into post college life. Out of my friends from various walks of life 4 are divorced. 3 got together in college and the other married a psychotic slut.

 

A Bro doesn't allow another Bro to get married until he's at least thirty.

In all seriousness though, your mom is wrong (for the most part). With current gender gaps in college education, coupled with the fact that college educated women don't want to "marry down" you're better off waiting it out. You seem like you're having a good time so keep doing you. Have fun before you settle down, have kids and have no life.

 

If you want to find a hot Jewish chick you are gonna have to go look at the IDF ladies. I hear some of them are smoking hot, although you might not want to piss them off. I hear they are good with knives.

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