Painful investing decisions -- how to get over them?

Hey guys, so I trade myself as a college student. I play around with a little bit of money and tend to look at small/micro cap stocks. Last year I watched PLUG bottom out (a dime and some change) and had a Hannibal Lector type love of the smell of blood in the street. I had my finger over the buy trigger w/ 20000shs @ .15, but then changed my mind and bought a similar stock -- you can tell where this is going. As of this writing, PLUG's HoD is 11.41 .. Depressing when you do the math, even if I wouldn't have had the balls to hold this long.

I know the typical trader philosophy is to do a.) using a Will Smith neuralyzer to forget and/or b.) take some time to dust yourself up and go get them next time; but this one sticks/has been sticking in my mind for a while. Anyone have any similar stories/advice?

 

Mainly because I got distracted after doing research and bought a very similar stock that didn't do near as well. Then looking at the pps (and StockTwits / god damn Najarian going bonkers over it) and kicking myself. I am guessing everyone has "that one trade" but nonetheless..

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I keep a journal of all my major trades and observations that I update at least once a week. Try starting one and use it as a time to be totally honest with yourself. Don't be afraid to hold back and let your mind wander. It's a great way to dig deep inside to see where the emotions are stemming and how its affecting you today (like @UFOinsider mentioned).

 

That's part of trading, whether you're a pro or you just trade your own account like I do. I missed FB and I'm kicking myself. Live and learn.

To put things in perspective, how pissed off are the bears who missed out on the last five years? HAHAHA

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Hey guys, so I trade myself as a college student. I play around with a little bit of money and tend to look at small/micro cap stocks. Last year I watched PLUG bottom out (a dime and some change) and had a Hannibal Lector type love of the smell of blood in the street. I had my finger over the buy trigger w/ 20000shs @ .15, but then changed my mind and bought a similar stock -- you can tell where this is going. As of this writing, PLUG's HoD is 11.41 .. Depressing when you do the math, even if I wouldn't have had the balls to hold this long.

I know the typical trader philosophy is to do a.) using a Will Smith neuralyzer to forget and/or b.) take some time to dust yourself up and go get them next time; but this one sticks/has been sticking in my mind for a while. Anyone have any similar stories/advice?

It seems like you don't have a lot of trading experience, which is fine. Trading is not like medicine, law, engineering, banking, etc, where you have to be correct almost all the time.

You'll be a fantastic trader if you get the trade right 55% of the time. That means you'll be wrong 45% of the time. Suck it up and move on.

 

The best way I have found to deal with this is simple... When you feel that you have a genuine opportunity, but are not 100% sure, just do a little bit, like 1/2 or 1/4 of the size you originally intended. This way you're guaranteed to not feel terrible about it, regardless of the outcome.

Otherwise, like others said previously, it's not a big deal. There will be more like this.

 

Window shopping stocks is useless. Can't count the number of times I've missed out on a big move up, but when I'm right I always kick myself for putting on such a small pos and exiting way too early.

Just part of the game.

CNBC sucks "This financial crisis is worse than a divorce. I've lost all my money, but the wife is still here." - Client after getting blown up
 

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