The worst place for relationship advice
For some incredibly intelligent people with nuanced views on global events and who can speak to so many of the pressing social and political issues such as the importance of dashes in emails, man, relationship advice on here is a dumpster fire.
I think one common misconception that I'd like to quickly correct is that women are a lot smarter than you think. We're not all gold diggers whose relationship checklist is abs and a credit card (and hopefully that's not what you want either), so when you job interferes with a relationship, you have no time to develop a relationship, or you distance yourself emotionally and go back to your place when times get tough, those things are noticed.
I promise you, your wife/girlfriend/girl you're talking to is logical in her own twisted way and these things will be factored on how we think of you. The dating scene is a market, and imo it's perhaps one of the more sophisticated ones. It's not that easy to pull a fast one on us, if you're 35/40 and unmarried (which is totally cool) there's definitely is a reason for it (career, too much travelling, you're a weirdo) and some/most/all of it won't be made up for the fact that you have a good job, or a good body, or have money.
I'm not trying to say that women should be looked to in awe, or your relationship should be the upmost priority in life. But please, just acknowledge we have a brain. Have fun selling one bedroom condos in new jersey, cause that's exactly the vibe some of you guys put out. Happy Friday :)