Tinder match didn’t respond now will be spending the weekend with her in a airbnb…

What's the move here? Matched with a girl on tinder that i knew of but never had met in person and shot her a message. Got no response. Now I just found out the tinder match and her friend (who is good friends with my friend) are going to be staying with us at the airbnb we got for a little weekend getaway. How do I approach this?

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  • Prospect in IB-M&A
Jul 22, 2021 - 6:15pm

Hahaha ya. Would only bring it up as a joke if we get along well for the weekend. Just don't know what the vibe will be / how to act upon arrival at the house. I think I'm a pretty good looking guy and have a good funny personality. and whenever i do seal the deal with a girl it's always in person never initiated through tinder first.

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  • Intern in IB-M&A
Jul 22, 2021 - 6:27pm

Don't overthink this chief... girls get hundreds of messages on tinder and don't respond to them. If she's on tinder, she's DTF. Fuck her brains  out and try to have a three way  

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  • Analyst 2 in IB - Restr
Jul 23, 2021 - 12:16am

Use the mutual friend to introduce then pull out the game 😤😤

Jul 23, 2021 - 3:37pm

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  • Intern in PE - Other
Jul 24, 2021 - 11:56am

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