At a crossroads need advice

I’m completely lost and need help. I have two offers:

  • Credit Investing (HY/Distressed) – Boutique AM
  • Product/Program Management – FAANG (lower comp)

I honestly don’t know what to do. I don’t love finance, I can’t see myself grinding 30+ years in credit, dealing with constant stress, long hours, and pressure. And I know jumping from here to a chill corporate/ops role is almost impossible.

But the money is way better, and I need it. Student loans, family obligations, everything. If comp were equal, I’d take FAANG without a second thought. But it’s not. And even though I know the gap narrows at the top, that doesn’t help me now.

I think I can survive a few years in credit, but I already know I’ll hate it. I know it’ll wear me down. I feel like I’m choosing between short-term survival and long-term sanity. MBA isn’t really an option for me since I’m european based and don’t know if I’ll have the cash (or even want to spend it if I did have it) on an expensive MBA.

Is it possible to move from a HY investing seat at a boutique AM to some type of corporate role later down the line?

And I don’t have time to think, the Boutique AM offer expires in 24 hours. Please, any advice is appreciated.

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Based on the most helpful WSO content, here's what you need to consider:

  1. Short-Term vs. Long-Term Trade-Offs:

    • If you take the Credit Investing role, you’ll likely have higher immediate earnings, which can help with your student loans and family obligations. However, as you’ve identified, the stress and long hours could lead to burnout, especially if you already know you don’t enjoy finance.
    • The FAANG Product/Program Management role, while offering lower compensation now, aligns better with your long-term sanity and career satisfaction. It also provides a more stable and transferable skill set for corporate roles.
  2. Exit Opportunities from Credit Investing:

    • Transitioning from a HY/Distressed investing role to a corporate/operations role is challenging but not impossible. According to WSO threads, many professionals in high-stress finance roles (like IB or AM) eventually pivot to corporate development, strategy, or even product management roles. However, this often requires networking, a strong narrative about transferable skills, and sometimes additional qualifications (e.g., CFA or certifications).
    • The risk is that staying in credit too long might pigeonhole you, making it harder to pivot later.
  3. FAANG as a Strategic Move:

    • FAANG roles, even at lower comp initially, are highly respected and can open doors to other tech or corporate opportunities. The work-life balance and skill set you gain could set you up for a sustainable career path.
    • Additionally, FAANG experience can be leveraged for internal promotions or lateral moves to higher-paying roles within the tech ecosystem.
  4. Financial Considerations:

    • If immediate financial obligations are a pressing concern, the Boutique AM role might seem like the only viable option. However, consider whether the mental toll and potential burnout could outweigh the financial benefits.
    • If you choose FAANG, explore options like refinancing student loans, side hustles, or other financial strategies to bridge the income gap.
  5. Decision Framework:

    • Ask yourself: Can you endure a few years in credit for the financial payoff, knowing you’ll need to actively plan your exit strategy? Or would the stress and misalignment with your interests make it unsustainable, even in the short term?
    • If you’re leaning toward FAANG but worried about finances, consider the long-term growth potential and the possibility of negotiating comp or exploring other tech roles down the line.
  6. Time Sensitivity:

    • With the Boutique AM offer expiring in 24 hours, you need to act quickly. If you’re truly torn, you could accept the offer and continue exploring FAANG or other opportunities during the notice period. However, this approach requires careful consideration of professional ethics and your ability to manage the situation.

Ultimately, if comp were equal, you’d choose FAANG without hesitation. That clarity suggests you value long-term career satisfaction and work-life balance over short-term financial gain. If you can find a way to manage the financial gap, FAANG might be the better choice for your overall well-being and career trajectory.

Sources: Fork in the road: Career path in Asset Management, Corporate Finance Q&A with accountingbyday, BJM85, STorIB, and djfiii, Leaving FAANG dev job for serious finance (Yes, you read that right), Leaving FAANG dev job for serious finance (Yes, you read that right), Regional Boutique vs. F15 Tech PM

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As an FGLI and based on what you wrote, take FAANG Product. Unless you and your family are in deep s*** debt (aka $500k+),  a FAANG Product salary will cover it just fine.  Finance will require a lot of face time and commitment, which meant you will have to live downtown and additional rent will eat up any extra $ you save.

 

vithanvidai:

As an FGLI and based on what you wrote, take FAANG Product. Unless you and your family are in deep s*** debt (aka $500k+),  a FAANG Product salary will cover it just fine.  Finance will require a lot of face time and commitment, which meant you will have to live downtown and additional rent will eat up any extra $ you save.


Thank you so much for your response & advice. Worth noting I’m UK based so salaries in tech vs finance are very different + the role I’m joining is hybrid product/program management at one of the lower paying FAANG’s (can probably guess which one). I ended up taking the FAANG role because it genuinely seemed really interesting and I think in 2/3 years the comp gap will narrow significantly!

 

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