IBD Target Recruiting w/ 3.0+ GPA: Parent Sick and Passed Away.

Hi everyone so this actually happened to me. I go to a target (non HYP ivy) and I have previous IBD experience at a boutique. One of my parents had been sick since freshmen year. I have had to work in the dining halls for 10-15 hours/week. Last year I had to go home because I wanted to see my parent before they passed. I'm currently a junior and going into recruiting.

Do you think I should bring this up to HR before obtaining any interviews? I think it's a legitimate reason for the GPA being so low, but I don't want to use it as an excuse.

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If you do bring it up, it would be during the actual interview. You have a perfect explanation for the "Why the low GPA?" question. I do not think its a good idea to try and reach out to HR beforehand.

Of course, actually getting the interview might be difficult since you would very likely be filtered out of OCR with a 3.3... Curious to know if your GPA within just your major is higher? If so, you should list both.

 

That's the thing. I'm afraid that it might get filtered out by an automated machine just because of my GPA. I want to get in front of someone to tell my story. That's why I was considering if I should tell HR

 

I wouldn't use it as an excuse... just weave it into your story when you are networking with people."I worked 15 hours a week throughout the school year to help make ends meet as my parents couldn't help due to a severe illness... ... ... When my parent passed... ". People should get it then.

I'm sorry that you had to go through all that... that would be so rough. Just remain confident - but you are going to have to network with people and have some ground to catch up. Most resume drops might kick out your resume for the GPA, so you need people pushing it through. If you get interviews, you are going to have to crush them to show that you are smart and just went through a rough last few years.

Just realize that and get to work on it. Good luck!

 

That excuse might work at Piper Jaffray, or whatever shit boutique bank you worked at last summer, but do you think it will work at Goldman fucking Sachs? Try telling your Goldman MD, "Sorry my operating model has several busts in it, but my parent just passed away." You're fucking dead, kiddo.

 
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I guaran-fucking-tee if your parent passed away any managing director would understand. But that's besides the point, you are a heartless dick for this response. From the bottom of my heart, a sincerest fuck you to you, you piece of shit.

OP, I wouldn't mention it to HR, I would try and get in contact with OCR or someone with some pull (MD's have worked well in my experience) and see if they can pull you through. To be frank, I wouldn't mention your recent family tragedy, but would rather say something along the lines of "I work to support myself through school, while still managing a good GPA at a reputable school," and leave it at that. I wouldn't mention anything unless they ask about your GPA specifically, and in that case I guess it would be appropriate to explain your situation. I'm not saying you mentioning your situation is seeking pity and sympathy, but some people may take it that way or it may leave a bad taste in their mouth if you're quick to mention it. Not saying it isn't a valid reason, but that's the way some may view it.

Again, Sorry about your loss OP and best of luck.

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Yeah that's what I thought too - that I'm just using it as an excuse and some people will be like wtf why is this kid telling me this. Networking has helped. I've gotten first rounds at Houlihan, Jefferies, and Tech DB IB. I just haven't been able to close them.

 
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That excuse might work at Piper Jaffray, or whatever shit boutique bank you worked at last summer, but do you think it will work at Goldman fucking Sachs? Try telling your Goldman MD, "Sorry my operating model has several busts in it, but my parent just passed away." You're fucking dead, kiddo.

Lol, shut your fucking whore mouth. Have you been influenced too much by some TV series/movies?

 

You're low GPA (depending on what major you are) will definitely not help you get through a resume screen. You're story is very moving and completely understandable, but getting the initial interview will be the issue. Recruiters and investment banks are very accommodating and understanding to extreme cases. I had a friend who was diagnosed with cancer during summer analyst recruiting and every bank (that had initially given him a 1st round) postponed his interviews until he was done with his 1st round of chemotherapy. He ended up at "Goldman fucking Sachs" as the asshole above called it.

Case in point, your GPA may hurt you in the interview selection process, but your story will 100% check out and not hurt you at all once your have an interview. It all comes down to technical questions and behavioral preperationl

 

i had similar situation, i didn't bring it up unless challenged on the less than stellar grades.

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I had a similar situation in college. I would focus on how you rebounded from his death so it does not come off as if you are trying to gain sympathy. Instead show your emotional stamina. For example you explanation could be: "I struggle with grief for a year and a half but I realize I could not let it affect my life. Plus my Dad had higher expectations for me. I decided to throw myself into my studies and start a journal to manage my feelings. Dealing with his loss taught me how to handle difficult personal situations while managing my academic career.

 

I had some medical issues, I never brought up my GPA first.

Use your discretion based on how the interview goes. I say that since the only time GPA would reasonably come up is in an interview. Don't forget that if/when your resume got screened nobody knew who you were or why your resume had the content it did.

Chances are GPA isn't an issue unless you make it one, otherwise why were you (theoretically) invited to interview?

 

my father died november of senior year of hs, sucked. grades took a fat hit and it took me about a year till things got somewhat back to normal.

i've never brought this up in any kind of job interview, thought it wouldve been too personal but i could see situations where in the right context it would work to bring up i guess

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I had some pretty serious health issues during my second year in school that hit my GPA kind of hard. It was never mentioned. Since I have my GPA listed, if they called me in for an interview my GPA is obviously a non issue.

But if they were to ask, I would skid around it. Not because it's inappropriate, but because it's personal and I don't feel comfortable spilling my life story to anyone who asks. I would just say that I had some health problems that impacted my school work but did not want to take time off. That may have been a mistake, but it's what I chose.

 

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