Always getting Sick - Anyone else or tips?

I keep getting extremely sick with a flu, virus or covid that floors me every 2-4 months and its really frustrating.

I know in our industry theres a ton of “ive only gotten sick three times in my life” but I was hospitalized with mono and some infection that fucked me almost permanently back in 2021. Before that i was healthy and rarley sick. I also exercise, eat healthy and see a specialist for vitamins and supplements to help my immune system.

I do have sick days but I’m not sure what to do with co workers and mgers who assume its bs. Most people i worked under always assume sick is bs but Im tired of feeling like im the ass hole for legitimately being out of commission. Any suggestions on this? Even if I explain this or show tests i dont want to be forced to prove im not full of shit. A bit of a rant but this is out of my control and other than my sickness shit im a top performer but it fucks with face time.

 

Take 10,000 IUs of D3 per day. It will boost your immune system and give you good bone health. 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

unironically... touch grass. Go outside, get some sun. It's good for you. Also, go see a doctor and see if there is a more serious underlying autoimmune disease

 

I've had a similar experience and I'll give you some advice/what worked for me. Got mono/epstein barr senior year of HS, got incredibly sick and had to be hospitalized. The doctors initially thought I had lymphoma because my lymphatic system was so screwed up, my lymph nodes were so enlarged, and the tests for mono came back negative. Eventually they tested for a different strain...and that came back positive. I never really got sick before this, but after getting mono/epstein barr, my immune system was completely wrecked, I kept getting sick every 2-4 months like you, and had chronic fatigue syndrome. Throughout college I had to be hospitalized a few times because of mysterious infections that wouldn't respond to normal antibiotics - always related somehow to my lymphatic system and particularly my tonsils.

Fast forward, right after college/grad school I got a seriously bad viral infection specifically in my tonsils, which I had to be hospitalized for. At this point, I was over it. I told my ENT that I wanted my tonsils out. The ENT recommended against it since getting an adult tonsillectomy is rough and I wasn't necessarily even getting strep throat, rather mysterious viral infections. Long story short, I got them out along with an adenoidectomy. I'll be blunt, this is the most pain I've ever been in ever in my life. The icing on the cake is that painkillers make me sick af, so I had to raw dog the recovery with just advil, which didn't help whatsoever. I lost 20lbs in two months during recovery.

But was it worth it? Absolutely. I haven't gotten significantly sick once (knock on wood) since my tonsillectomy & adenoidectomy. I've had small colds here and there but nothing anywhere close to the severity before.

Epstein barr/mono is an insidious virus. It's in herpes virus family, which includes obviously herpes, chickenpox/shingles. You can never get rid of it and it lives latent in your cells and can become reactivated. The thing with mono is that it primarily targets your lymph system whereas other herpes viruses target other areas in your body more so than the lymph system. So in my case, I think the mono was becoming reactivated in my tonsils/adenoids so removing those removed the ability for the virus to continue making me sick. I'm not a doctor so take that for what it is, maybe there's a doctor on here that can chime in. 

Aside from surgery, make sure your supplement/lifestyle stack is well-optimized:

1. Vitamin D3 + K2 (important to have the correct ratio, look it up)

2. Super healthy diet, try to get all your vitamins through your diet rather than a multi-vitamin 

3. Limit stimulants/caffeine 

4. Regular cardio & weightlifting 

5. Get as much sun as possible

6. Probiotics 

7. Avoid anything that inflames your body (excessive alcohol, lack of sleep, seed oils, processed foods, etc)

Hope that helps. 

 
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