Any tips for ending LTR?

Okay so I've been in relationship with this woman for a long time. We grew up together in Brisbane. I've worked overseas in IB and she came with me and now I work at a MMB in NYC. I come home late, I work a lot as I'm an analyst. I love what I do, it's just that this woman has started complaining and all that and wants me to go into or commercial banking with less hours/week. Since I love what I do, I don't see myself going anywhere in the foreseeable future and I would like to let her go and enjoy her life than stick with me and be miserable. She has a part time job and is 3 weeks pregnant and I'm not ready for this. So I want her to abort and let her go. I just don't know how to approach her about this and tell her. She's stuck with me ever since our sophomore year together and I don't see any other way of making her happy. Honestly, I miss my single life where I wasn't tied to a woman. So any input on this would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you for reading

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Did you intend on keeping the baby in the first place? You should start off easy by telling her that both of you (stress this as a 'us' thing instead of a 'I' thing) are in no place to have a child together. After she aborts, wait a month then break it off.

 

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