Have you cheated on your significant other? Is it a normal culture in your office?

Have you cheated on your significant other? Is it a normal culture in your office?

I love my girlfriend as much as I love my own family. I find her still very attractive and consider her my best friend. However, I find it extremely difficult to resist the temptation when I see beautiful girls on the street/office/Tinder (it takes me a tremendous amount of willpower); all shapes and colors (I don't discriminate), I want to try EVERYTHING like an all you can eat Chinese buffet.

How do you guys feel? Is this normal? How do you make this stop?

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"CrackSpread" I love my girlfriend as much as I love my own family. .

when I see beautiful girls on Tinder

What?
“The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary.” - Nassim Taleb
 

I used to work at a blue-chip technology firm that was buttoned-up conservative in almost all facets of the business. I now work at a Fortune 20 firm that I would describe as "rough and tumble". Adultery is far from taboo. I can rattle off a dozen executives that partake. It blew my mind how prevalent it is. I was repulsed at first but now it's just extra spice for the Game of Thrones level of politics that is carried out on a day-to-day basis.

 

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