I got scammed by a matchmaker service

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I talked to the matchmaking company about my complaints and feedback. In exchange for giving me free service for an additional 3 months to make amends, I agreed to delete the review. If anyone has questions, feel free to DM me. 

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Isaiah_53_5 💎🙌💎🙌💎, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Wow - I read all of that. Sounds extremely frustrating. The matchmaking service could be a well thought out and poorly executed service, which is common in many industries. 

Were the girls:

a) paid for showing up

b) charged just like you

c) or were they doing it for free?

Tinder or The League seems like a better use of your time. 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Mr_Agree_to_Disagree, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Sorry you got burned and not because of an STD from one of these dates. I would just say use the less expensive real-life matchmaking service of going to the dog park or going to a bar after work hours. Or if you want someone with some morals for once, going to Sunday mass and getting involved there. League sports are another good one like even a bowling league. Know one of the best families that met during one of these leagues. Yet here we are eight years and two children later...

Or if you're a degen like a friend told me (and no it wasn't Pizz), there's always your friends' sisters.

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Pizz, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Find a hobby and find your SO through that 

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Isaiah_53_5 💎🙌💎🙌💎, what's your opinion? Comment below:
Pizz

Find a hobby and find your SO through that 

1. Find Hobby

2. Find SO

....
sex

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Pierogi Equities, what's your opinion? Comment below:

repeat, profit

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ebitduh2016, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Dude did you really spend $5,000 on this shit or are you trolling… 

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Isaiah_53_5 💎🙌💎🙌💎, what's your opinion? Comment below:
ebitduh2016

Dude did you really spend $5,000 on this shit or are you trolling… 

Yeah, sounds like their sales team is much better than their operations team.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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MDR1, what's your opinion? Comment below:

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Isaiah_53_5 💎🙌💎🙌💎, what's your opinion? Comment below:

yooo look at all these matchmakers! and they are all girls....... some of them look.... 'interesting'

https://www.threedayrule.com/team

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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MDR1, what's your opinion? Comment below:

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dutchduke, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Sorry to hear. Sounds pretty shady, you had to put in a lot of effort here too which is total bullshit. Sounds like a scam from the photographers to the bimbos looking for high end meals on their off nights.  $5k is a really outrageous fee. You could've had a kick ass time at some strip clubs for that much.  Oh well, live and learn my friend. 

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MedDoc1988, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Duuuuuuuude. Thanks for revealing this but I feel so bad you got scammed. Buyer beware :(

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earthwalker7, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Seems like you still haven't found a dating strategy that works for you. Vary your strategy. I usually found cold approach better for me. I spot a girl I like, found some excuse to talk to her, made a couple stupid jokes, asked for a number. If she was down then I would meet her later for coffee (never dinner, too much investment for a first date) and see if there's chemistry. This saves my time and theirs.Or I might meet a girl through my hobbies (dated one girl from my martial arts program in uni for years).This seems to me as the most natural way of meeting girls and so I don't really understand the attraction of apps or matchmakers.Years ago I used apps but the girls rarely looked like their picture and I get the sense there's probably hundreds of guys chasing each girl and throwing them tons of ego-boosting validation. That means your DM is fighting for attention among hundreds. And why bother?

Meanwhile a direct in person approach means you have confidence and are attracted enough to walk up and shoot your shot.

Ymmv

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MDR1, what's your opinion? Comment below:

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