I just found my friends girlfriend on Seeking Arrangements, I don't know where else to go for advice

A good friend of mine from college has been seeing this girl for a while and she treated him like shit and even cheated on him once.

A second time we all caught her out with a guy and she claimed it was her cousin even though I argued with my friend that it definitely wasn't true, he said he was going to trust her and the squabble ended.

Embarrassingly, I was on seeking arrangements yesterday and I came upon her profile and she actually liked mine. I did not show my face or anything just posted images that aren't on social media. 

I have not seen this guy in person since 2020 and we haven't really spoken in a while just on and off indirectly through our college groupchat and i dont know if i should tell him or leave it be or make a fake instagram and tell him through that. 

I have no way of showing proof because I do not want to dox her or him or me, but this is definitely true and I will swear on my late mothers grave that it is.

To make matters worse her profile on SA has been verified using Linkedin, Instagram facebook and an ID. Could this still be a scam and someone is using her pictures?

I don't want to go to reddit so it doesn't go mega viral or anything and since you all are kinda like my extended colleagues who I guess are smarter than the average person I came here. 

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Here’s what you do. You make a profile of a really hot rich guy. Promise her theworld but make it realistic. If she goes for it and is willing to meet up, reach out to your friend and ask him what the deal is.


A lot of girls just go on that site to sell pics and make a quick $100 to sell feet pics or whatever. There are also tons of lonely old men who will piss away money (we’re talking hundreds or thousands) just to go to dinner with a hot girl.

But if you can verify through messaging her that she’s actually down to hook up, ask the guy if they’re still together

 

I literally do not have the time to do all that. Great idea but I don't care enough to actually get that invested to the point of building a relationship

 

lmao i was embarrassed enough to be browsing that site but you made me feel even worse and nah I'm not going to link with anyone, i just go on there sometimes when i'm feeling kinky and I just made the account, proof below

 

First, paging wolfofwso

Second, you know what's going to you know what. So I wouldn't get worked up over her turning tricks like that, and your bud is just going to have to find out the hard way more than likely and all you can do is wait patiently for the obligatory and very well earned "I told you so..." 

Third, save the embarassment. Everyone wants to get laid, you just chose to go a quicker and easier literal "pay to play" route instead of the usual methods.

The poster formerly known as theAudiophile. Just turned up to 11, like the stereo.
 

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