I am meeting my boyfriend's sister for the first time
WELL she turns out to be someone I know in my early college days and I treated her like crap. we didnt like each other thats for sure but i was a real bitch and made her like miserable.. i was so so mean to her. at the time i just said she doesnt like me, so i can do this but looking back i see i was out of control and im sorry.
how do you deal with meeting someone you treated badly before? and then potentially answering questions by someone you really care about (the bf) about this?
i bet this sort of stuff happens in banking a lot.....
it's okay because you're gay now
LOL
This is why it's always good to be nice to people.
That said, everyone grows as human beings- I'm sure you have, too. I certainly have over the past few years. If she brings it up, just try and be honest and if you can say something like, "Yeah, I was really immature back then. Sorry for being a jerk" that can start the process of patching things up.
Most people just want to know that you've changed for the better, and if it's a genuine change, they'll be happy for you and the old wounds will eventually heal. Other human beings tend to be a lot more gracious than we give them credit for.
+1
Isn't this the script to an upcoming Hollywood film with Kristen Bell?
Yeah, OP is basically the antagonist in this movie:
be a man. and say exactly what u said here : i feel bad, i was rude to u. im sorry. and if she cant get over it, tell her to go suck a dick.
At least tell your boyfriend about it. His sister has undoubtedly already expressed her disbelief that he's dating that bitch from college.
Uh...guys? I'm thinking the OP is a chick.
Just saying.
agreed
Friday stupidity round questions.....what does OP mean?
what the fuck is this high school grow the fuck up op and tell her to as well
What sort of treatment are we talking about here? Like you were roommates and you were nailing dudes all the time and wouldn't let her study? Or you were in her sorority and called her a fat slut? Because if she was, sometimes the truth hurts and no apology necessary. If it was the former, make sure your bfs room shares a wall with hers and really go to town. Bring her back some memories.
I've been through this. I bullied a lot of people in high school and I still feel guilty about it. Best to just start off from a clean slate and be really nice if you do meet those you hurt in the past.
On a side note, the brunette in the movie clip posted above, Odette Yustman is gorgeous.
Agreed, I think she looks like a classy Megan Fox.
+1
Thanks guys!!!
Original Poster
Thanks anthony
you have to give it for people in this industry, there are abreviations for nearly everything
On this note i bid everyone a GN
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